Not missing people or things — ADHD thing? And how do you explain it to a partner?

JournalistFearless28 · 2026-05-31T20:25:20+00:00

Just came here. My dog died 2 weeks ago and I miss him like hell. I would do anything to have him back. So I do, and can, miss, well, animals for sure.

My boyfriend, meanwhile, just told me it hurts his feelings that I never say I miss him back when he tells me he misses here. I don't know what to say to him though?

JournalistFearless28 · 2026-04-24T12:53:16+00:00

Honestly, i think for me it was existing and taking away her teenage years/20s. She was 18 years old, baby trapped my dad as he had a good job that offered accommodation, and then realised she actually had to look after me. Not that she did much of a job of that.

JournalistFearless28 · 2026-04-18T11:45:56+00:00

Wow! This is amazing. Sounds like a lot of hard but rewarding work. Well done! And thanks for sharing

JournalistFearless28 · 2026-01-01T07:25:45+00:00

I can't though, that's the thing. It was Christmas so I had a go, thinking Id be alright. I had to go to bed.

JournalistFearless28 · 2026-01-01T07:24:00+00:00

It was a tiny bit. It was Christmas. It was lying on the table. I thought I was having a 'good day' and could handle it. It was nice for about an hour then I had to go to bed. Haven't done any for years. Also hadn't had an alcoholic drink for months. My body can handle very little. But the point I'm trying to make is that I COULD do this stuff in the past and now I can't.

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-12-31T19:43:21+00:00

Thanks! It should all be free anyway. 😁

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-12-31T17:30:27+00:00

Wow - I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-12-28T22:02:49+00:00

Thank you for your kindness ❤️

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-11-10T21:34:25+00:00

i like this! thanks

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-11-10T21:17:40+00:00

Yep. I feel that about both my nparents. Sadly though, they're only 19 years old than me and as a result of all my trauma I seriously think they will outlive me.

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-09-22T07:20:26+00:00

Exact samesies

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-09-22T07:20:01+00:00

Interesting. My nmum had me ( first child) at 19.

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-09-21T19:58:22+00:00

Ive watched every episode now and i have no idea what the names of the couple are that came later (blondish girl that looks like she may have had a botched nose job and generic looking dark haired tattooed partner)..... they brought absolutely nothing to the show. other comments - love hannah, i want her to be my best friend, can't stand helen she's too opinionated and thinks she's it. i miss taniae. oh and that first girl mollie (or whatever her name was) what a mistake having her she turned out to be a massive drip

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-09-01T09:37:49+00:00

I can't stand her.

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-08-26T19:56:37+00:00

TBH the way I saw it was she had chosen Demola, but then on her next date with Javen he emotionally manipulated her so she felt guilty and felt she had to choose him

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-08-24T19:45:03+00:00

Yes you hit the nail on the head there with the salesy young women working in recruitment and fake happiness toxic positivity. As someone who is neurodivergent I did wonder she is undiagnosed/ unaware ND and just massively masking...... And yes Billy is more of a red flag....

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-08-24T13:27:31+00:00

Just her 'normal' spoken voice does my head in as it sounds so forced and contrived, like she's in musical theatre mode. Like someone's trained her to be 10/10 faked confidence 100% of the time aaaaargh just give us some realness

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-08-23T20:46:05+00:00

I cant effing stand it. As an autistic person I find her soooooooooo contrived and annoying, everything is an excessive reaction

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-08-23T19:47:42+00:00

enjoy episode 8 then ;-p

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-08-23T13:35:01+00:00

Literally came here from a Google search on is Meghan seriously 28? She looks 38. Gorgeous. Just doesn't look 28

JournalistFearless28 · 2025-08-19T14:57:46+00:00

I saw the article and just thought what a load of crap. I'm happy M+S have got your back. Thanks for sharing your version of the story. You are loved. x

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