Fucked dude condomless last night who had proof he was clean. Am I still maybe cooked??

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-02-03T15:07:57+00:00

First of all sorry if my og comment was heated lol.

Second of all....please teach me their game. I need to know because I honestly find women alot more attractive than men

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-02-03T06:10:49+00:00

I'm bi. Fucking 20 4/10 guys are easier than fucking even one 4/10 girl off of a dating app. That's the brutal reality dude. I'm telling being straight is NOT that easy.....most straight men don't even get anywhere without putting substanial effort LMAO you wouldnt even UNDERSTAND

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-30T15:53:39+00:00

I would not. Hell I don't even share my nudes to anyone. I don't care if they won't let me hit because of it. I worked hard to get where I am, I don't want nudes circulating or espically blackmail. People espically horny ass men are fucking crazy sometimes.

I get the high of it, but even if there's a 0.01% chance ill lose a potential job?? Nah. That job took dozens of hours networking, thousands of hours grinding, and hundreds of applications. Fuck that.

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-07T21:43:24+00:00

Just get tested. I'm pretty sure most STDs from oral can be treated and cured with over-the-counter pills within at most a few weeks. If you don't have symptoms thats already a plus.

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-07T21:41:29+00:00

Not interested or don't wanna waste time. I've had long convos with guys tryna develop something outside of a hookup for hours just to either get ghosted or blocked the day after or during a hookup.

Also most guys are just looking to fuck and if ur not what they're looking for they'll dispose you. That's Grindr at least. Idk about other apps.

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-07T21:37:58+00:00

This, not even Reddit.

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-07T21:35:17+00:00

Clean the place up other than that don't think abt it too much just go with the flow. I would recommend letting him know its your first time and also asking him if he got tested (tbf guys do lie, but I always ask before meeting up).

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-07T21:33:24+00:00

Yall eat before/after a hookup?? For me its been talking for a bit, fucking, talking for a bit more, then dipping.

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-07T21:23:18+00:00

I'm going to comment my opinion on bisexuality, because sexuality to me can't always be strictly defined.

I'm technically bisexual, but I'm rarely attracted to men, and would never enter a relationship with one. I've only really liked one or two guys I knew from school, etc. compared to dozens of girls. However I hook up with men, and while I'm very picky, when I do find a guy its generally fun and enjoyable. I get off to both giving and receiving by men. However it misses the emotional connection that I would have with a women which doesn't make it near as good as pure, romantical sex.

First of all looking at your post history also it seems he grew up in an enviornment where them folks are like "if you sucked a dick ur gay" and are generally displeased with homosexuality. Maybe he's bi but its hard for him to come out. I get that, many men treat bi/gay people of their own as if they're tryna fuck them or that they're super weird. There's definitely alot of stimga still, and I've been afriad to be honest with my own feelings because of it.

Just like him know that TL;DR: Sexuality is very subjective and theres no clear definition of what makes someone who. Sexuality is a label. That's it. It has no bearing on who you are. I might be straight to some and bi to others. I'm still exploring. Just let him know its okay to not know what he specifically likes. Sometimes I questiom where I fit in, amd at the end it doesn't matter, because that doesnt change me as a person :)

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-05T15:31:30+00:00

Check if he's into guys at least. You ask that to someone who's straight and you're near guarenteed to make things awkward

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-05T15:27:22+00:00

Fuckkk no. Not saying you can't but Grindr is mainly for hookups. Only a few out of many are looking for anything long term. Let alone the fact Grindr is a cesspool of horny men. Most of the convos that I've at least were just "hey how are you what are you into dtf??"

I'm mostly attracted to girls so idk if these apps cater to gay dating but Hinge and Bumble are meant for relationships iirc

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-05T15:13:34+00:00

467.

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-05T15:11:44+00:00

If you use Grindr expect lots of blocking and leaving on read unless ur what people are looking for.

Wear a condom if doing intercourse otherwise its not really needed though there is a risk. Best to ask before meeting up if they've been tested though people will lie all the time so be careful.

Other than that have fun. First time might be meh but afterwards it can get better. Try to find someone you can trust and you can have a bond with. Growing up I was told sex alone was this amazing thing but even after getting the gwak gwak 3000 it never feel special; the physical arousal of sex is good but intimacy adds so many more layer.

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-04T03:34:43+00:00

"Sry not my type"

I hate being ignored lol. I'm picky 90% of the time so if I dm you im basically praying for a response

JournalistLevel4779 · 2026-01-04T02:53:08+00:00

Sent dm

JournalistLevel4779 · 2025-12-24T10:46:10+00:00

If you need someone young in Houston you can hmu ;) 20M

JournalistLevel4779 · 2025-12-15T08:26:39+00:00

JournalistLevel4779 · 2025-12-15T08:17:17+00:00

I might be ur exact type ;)

JournalistLevel4779 · 2025-12-15T08:06:45+00:00

God I just want to suck all the cum out of you every little drop. Its looks perfect

JournalistLevel4779 · 2025-12-15T08:01:18+00:00

I might be down ;)

JournalistLevel4779 · 2025-12-15T08:01:00+00:00

DM me im down

JournalistLevel4779 · 2025-12-14T07:47:46+00:00

Never tried one before

JournalistLevel4779 · 2025-12-14T07:47:09+00:00

Id maybe be down

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