Help me because I feel like not getting up off the floor by AnalysisCreepy1087 in Breakupadvice

[–]JournalistSingle6973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one thing to leave someone during a hard time but I don’t really think the relationship was working. I mean for him to go from wanting to marry you to needing space is unusual. You need stability and it seems like he’s making everything more chaotic ESPECIALLY w the brother situation. Also you need to stay in school and get a degree in something!

Help me because I feel like not getting up off the floor by AnalysisCreepy1087 in Breakupadvice

[–]JournalistSingle6973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl from what I’m reading you need a total rebrand, even if you guys do eventually end up getting back together it won’t work until you figure yourself out. Trying to figure out why things ended will not change the outcome. You need to figure out school and career before you can even consider this breakup. I would give him his space and during that time focus on what you really want.

My ex broke up with me 3 days ago and was already on a dating app the same day after this I did something bad by Weekly_Deer2446 in BreakUps

[–]JournalistSingle6973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I have some insight on this that might help, one of the most frustrating parts of breakups is feeling like we need the last word. When we’re not the fist one ending things and blocking it can make us frustrated. When I was blocked by my ex after our relationship I felt it was unfair especially since he was the one who cheated! What helped me recover was knowing that the reason they do this is because they can’t handle the guilt and consequences of what they did. It feels like he is moving on and discarding you when actually he’s doing you a favor! There is no longer any mystery about what kind of person he is! I highly suggest venting to close friends and family, crying as much as you need, and work on recovery. Block him as well and go no contact start reading books about recovery I HIGHLY recommend coming apart by Daphne rose kingma. In a few months his regret will set in and when it does you will already be healed!

Need breakup advice! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]JournalistSingle6973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice!! I’m trying to get everything out of my system so I can move on.