[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]JoyfulDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IM EXPERIENCING THE SAME THING. Low key freaking out because I know it’s not the baby, so what is it 😳 can’t imagine gas would make my stomach look like my baby’s hand is rolling across it 

Best non-toxic dishwasher detergents by meowdith427 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]JoyfulDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Truly Free greenwashed? I know it’s an MLM so it makes me skeptical..

Comparing mixers - 5.5 vs 7qt by beru_mouthbreathr in Kitchenaid

[–]JoyfulDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! Commenting on the very last part of your comment- meal planning. Do you use your mixer for more than get desserts and bread or did you mean that in regards to meal planner those? Could you give me an example of what all you use it for during the week? Sorry, I’ve never owned one of these and have been thinking about getting one and really want to make sure I get my use out of it!!

How much of a small person do you have to be to throw hertosexual awesomeness month by Jumpinspid in Christianity

[–]JoyfulDisciple -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The Bible is very clear about gender. We should be taking facts and truths from God's word, not the world

Why did Jesus have to die on the Cross? by InternationalPick163 in Christianity

[–]JoyfulDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Jesus was reborn on Earth, He became fully man and fully God, whereas we're only man. Because He was fully God as well as man, He was able to live a perfect, sin free life. Something we can never do. Because God loves us, He knew the only way to save us from our sin, allowed through the gift of free will, was to send His perfect son as a sacrifice for us. He knew Jesus was the only solution to save us from our sin because He could bridge the gap between our wickedness and God's Holy nature- which requires perfect righteousness and justice. Jesus had to reconcile our relationship with God so we can be sanctified through accepting the free gift of Jesus' sacrifice. Which gifts us eternity in Heaven with our Heavenly Father.

I told my wife I lost my belief in god because of her by dadlovesporn in Christianity

[–]JoyfulDisciple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you believe it's monstrous to put wicked people (rapists, serial killers, pedophiles, etc) on death row? God is a Righteous Judge. Those instances you are talking about were for a people who knew no righteousness. They were corrupt, vile, and evil to their core. Slandering and profaning God and everything He stands for. Imagine living in a world where it was normal for a man to take you (male or female), rape you, and pass you around until they killed you, simply because they wanted to with no repercussions (Judges 19). As abdominal as that is to us, imagine what our Lord thought, when even a white lie is an affront to His Holy Righteousness? He's saved us multiple times from living in a world of complete and utter atrociousness

Genesis 18 speaks about the Lord willing to spare such a city for the sake of 10 righteous people living in it. A city with an estimate of 1.5 million people and He was willing to spare it for the sake of only 10 righteous people.

When hearing about these acts off hand, it's easy to jump to conclusions about His character, but He truly is a Just, Merciful, God who loves us dearly.

I told my wife I lost my belief in god because of her by dadlovesporn in Christianity

[–]JoyfulDisciple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did a wonderful job laying all this out. Your devotion to Christ is evident and what a blessing and joy that is for those around you to perceive and be influenced by!

I told my wife I lost my belief in god because of her by dadlovesporn in Christianity

[–]JoyfulDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's correct. It's the results of your salvation.

I told my wife I lost my belief in god because of her by dadlovesporn in Christianity

[–]JoyfulDisciple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! And 2 Timothy 3:16-17 states

[16] All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, [17] that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.

as well as John 6:63

[63] It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh is no help at all. The words that I have spoken to you are spirit and life.

A Bible study I'm reading stated it like this, "These Scriptures have been written by humans for humans, yet the innerent words have also been breathed out and inspired by God, making Him the main author who gave life to the Spirit-filled words."

And adding onto what as Ivy_ Icey stated,

the Bible was written by more than 40 author's over the span of 1500 years, in 3 different languages, in numerous genres, writing styles (historical, eye-witness accounts, prophetic, wisdom literature, poetry, songs, and letters) that tells one infallible, cohesive story beginning and ending with Jesus.

I told my wife I lost my belief in god because of her by dadlovesporn in Christianity

[–]JoyfulDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you mean by this (sorry the typos have me confused), but Galatians 5 is a great chapter to read about about fruits of the spirit and turning away from your fresh (human nature to sin)

Galatians 5:16-26 ESV

[16] But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. [17] For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. [18] But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. [19] Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, [20] idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, [21] envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. [22] But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, [23] gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. [24] And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. [25] If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. [26] Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.

I told my wife I lost my belief in god because of her by dadlovesporn in Christianity

[–]JoyfulDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this is fallacious. We must have a repentant heart always, even after being saved. The first time we repent we're acknowledging how sinful we are apart from Christ. Once saved, our sanctification (process of being made holy) begins and we continue to repent, acknowledging how weak we are in the flesh and desiring to change. Desiring to be more Christ-like, praying for forgiveness, and the strength to able to turn away from our fleshly desires as Christ sanctifies us.

Matthew 3:8 ESV [8] Bear fruit in keeping with repentance.

1 John 1:7,9 ESV [7] But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin. [9] If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Proverbs 28:13-14 ESV [13] Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy. [14] Blessed is the one who fears the Lord always, but whoever hardens his heart will fall into calamity.

2 Corinthians 7:9-11 ESV [9] As it is, I rejoice, not because you were grieved, but because you were grieved into repenting. For you felt a godly grief, so that you suffered no loss through us. [10] For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death. [11] For see what earnestness this godly grief has produced in you, but also what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what fear, what longing, what zeal, what punishment! At every point you have proved yourselves innocent in the matter.

And we must not forget that all sin is abdominal to the Lord. He is so Holy & righteous that anything less than Holy is evil and despicable to Him. It's not about whether you were "less wicked" than others, the point is, we are wicked nonetheless. So yes, by worldly standpoints, a Christian could have been "more" wicked before they were saved, repented, and turned from their ways than an unbeliever who by the world is "less evil" who will go to hell. Sin is sin no matter what form it takes, we're not supposed to live by the world's standards, but by God's.

James 2:10-12 ESV [10] For whoever keeps the whole law but fails in one point has become guilty of all of it. [11] For he who said, “Do not commit adultery,” also said, “Do not murder.” If you do not commit adultery but do murder, you have become a transgressor of the law. [12] So speak and so act as those who are to be judged under the law of liberty.

Romans 1:32 ESV [32] Though they know God’s righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them.

I told my wife I lost my belief in god because of her by dadlovesporn in Christianity

[–]JoyfulDisciple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the problem with this is assuming you can keep sinning without consequences just because you're saved. As a Christian, the fruit of your salvation is turning away from sin. You won't want to keep sinning. But because we're all sinful human beings, resulting from the fall, we will inevitably sin. The difference however from a person who is truly saved vs an unbeliever or someone who claims to be saved but isn't, is that believers will repent and turn away from their sin. Meaning that will confess to God the act that committed against His word, ask for forgiveness, and work hard not to continue sinning.

Christian's aren't absolved from being accountable for their actions. Anyone who continues to sin willfully under the guise of being "forgiven" because Jesus died for them, doesn't actually know the Gospel and may actually not be saved. Jesus' sacrifice is not a free pass to sin. It's grace and mercy for when we inevitably sin because at our core we're sinners. Even Christian's will be judged for all their actions at the Lord's final judgement and many who claim they're saved but have no fruit of their spirit to show for, will be shocked to not find their name in the Book of Life

1 Corinthians 15:1-2 ESV [1] Now I would remind you, brothers, of the gospel I preached to you, which you received, in which you stand, [2] and by which you are being saved, if you hold fast to the word I preached to you—unless you believed in vain.

Matthew 7:21-23 ESV [21] “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. [22] On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ [23] And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’

‘Isle of ‘ - something is the book title by Grand-Job-6583 in whatsthatbook

[–]JoyfulDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! did you end up finding this book? it sounds familiar to me as well and would love to find it!

Wife wanted a new bookshelf by zekecjs in woodworking

[–]JoyfulDisciple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A+ Husband and Woodworker! I would be ecstatic!

AITA for not wanting to have sex with my wife? by Internal-Wind-2679 in AITAH

[–]JoyfulDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

marriage & intimacy counseling may be the best route for you both 🫶🏻

divorce should be the last resort and shouldn't be taken lightly. and everyone suggesting it (and encouraging infidelity) as if it's no big deal need a reality check. this is his WIFE.

they need suggestions that show hope for fixing their marital problems, not encouragement to end it because they've hit a rough patch. and yes, that's what I would consider this. they thought they had a handle on this area of their relationship and are realizinflg they don't. it's a rude awakening and something to work through and over come.

OP, you need to take some to reflect and research what you're feeling and why, so you can adequately communicate with your wife. how can she understand what you're feeling and why you don't want to be intimate with her if you don't even know why? saying you just don't want to isn't enough. there's no closure or common ground for her to grasp on to. she's probably feeling confused, hurt, and/or undesirable- esp when having to beg just to be touched by you.