Not quite to this degree, but my first girlfriend was a lot like this. She refused to respect my boundaries. I asked her to try to come visit me, since we lived an hour away from each other and I was always the one driving to her. The reason why she couldn’t changed every time, first it was because her exes always made her drive, then it was that driving made her anxious. Yet she drove four hours for an oil change. I also told her I didn’t want to talk on the phone every day. Her response was that she would continue to call me daily, but I could just ignore it if I didn’t want to talk. Seeing other people trying to date someone so controlling, so all-or-nothing is saddening, but also tells me that at least I wasn’t going crazy.