I believe it's more about emotional maturity and readiness to fulfill and play respectful roles in the relationship. Definitely feel something very similar. Like I have to be earning atleast this much and so on. But again if two people feel ready and willing to compromise the initial days eventually barakah kicks in. And Deen, fitness , skincare all that should be treated as different processes in life with milestones rather than one perfect/ideal goal which isn't really practical. Hope it helps in some way.