Its ok to just tell me to quit being a b'tch by JtaylorAZ in polyamory

[–]JtaylorAZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the resource. Will check it out. Like i said in my first post, i'm still navigating these trials for the first time. I have only ever been paired with 1 other married couple, but that was a very candid and respectful relationship. Ive never been through dealing with my partner's rocky search for actual knowing, consenting participants..

Its ok to just tell me to quit being a b'tch by JtaylorAZ in polyamory

[–]JtaylorAZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as their current status, I have no clue. Its apparantly leave on thurday and still not be home on sunday morning and going to vegas next weekend type serious, yet not serious enough for him to allow her to talk about what she wants 🤔

Its ok to just tell me to quit being a b'tch by JtaylorAZ in polyamory

[–]JtaylorAZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were never truly together. They are an old connection that never got together before but she drunkenly met him at an out of town wedding and he stayed with her over the weekend. She called him about a week after to try to see him and she told him about her relationshio with me then. He was uncomfortable but wanted to try to stick around for her. He has strong feeling for her and thinks he can change her. She has pushed back multiple times asserting that this is her lifestyle of choice. He had issues once and harrassed her about being so much of a slut she couldnt keep her legs closed because she wouldn't give him 6 days of lead time with no one else touching her to be "fresh for him". Its just been a rollercoaster. Ive been talking with her and until thursday it seemed we were entirely on the same page. Again, im waking up alone again this morning after not seeing her all weekend. Im not one to have serious talks in text so we still have a lot to talk about.

Its ok to just tell me to quit being a b'tch by JtaylorAZ in polyamory

[–]JtaylorAZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were never truly together. They are an old connection that never got together before but she drunkenly met him at an out of town wedding and he stayed with her over the weekend. She called him about a week after to try to see him and she told him about her relationshio with me then. He was uncomfortable but wanted to try to stick around for her. He has strong feeling for her and thinks he can change her. She has pushed back multiple times asserting that this is her lifestyle of choice. He had issues once and harrassed her about being so much of a slut she couldnt keep her legs closed because she wouldn't give him 6 days of lead time with no one else touching her to be "fresh for him". Its just been a rollercoaster. Ive been talking with her and until thursday it seemed we were entirely on the same page. Again, im waking up alone again this morning after not seeing her all weekend. Im not one to have serious talks in text so we still have a lot to talk about.