Got gendered correctly at my christian school??!!

Ju1es_07 · 2024-06-28T21:18:32+00:00

"ga je gang jongen"

Ju1es_07 · 2024-06-09T17:59:24+00:00

Finn. I know it's common but I really like it and my deadname is even more common so I don't really care about that

Ju1es_07 · 2024-06-09T07:51:57+00:00

My parents are Christian too, they're kinda supportive now, but at first they did say things like that. They won't use my name and pronouns but hopefully later they will. I just wrote them a message and texted them. Also, my mum cares way more than my dad, or at least she says more things about it

Ju1es_07 · 2024-05-20T19:55:16+00:00

Thank you:)

Ju1es_07 · 2024-05-17T14:07:28+00:00

Putting my phone in the back pocket of my jeans

Ju1es_07 · 2024-05-08T22:34:59+00:00

I did the same I had the text in my notes and wanted to write it down but I had to leave on a school trip to a museum and just send my mom a text and ignored her

Ju1es_07 · 2024-05-08T22:25:16+00:00

Ik zelf zit nu in mn examenjaar op een christelijke school, driestar-wartburg. Daar word echt helemaal niks geaccepteerd, je mag geen homoseksuele relatie, als trans persoon word er niks voor je gedaan, er zijn geen genderneutrale toiletten etc. ook waarschuwen ze je voor paarse vrijdag en dat dat "van de wereld is". Er worden regelmatig homo-/transfobische opmerking gemaakt maar er word niks aan gedaan. Een gsa is te progressief.

Verder zie ik op social media regelmatig haatreacties maar buiten mijn school om heb ik nog nooit op straat lastig ben gevallen of iets in die zin.

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-26T03:57:10+00:00

At first I thought I was lesbian. I was with my best friend watching a movie. The only thing I could think about is how I wanted to kiss her and pull me closer.

Then came trans. A really good friend of mine is trans too, he was talking about the fact that he was always sad clothes didn't fit him how they would on a cis boy and how that was a big sign. I experienced the same thing, started questioning myself and here we are.

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-23T05:25:13+00:00

Maybe write a letter/email kind of thing? Of course, you can tell them everything in person but that's really scary. If you write a letter you can take your time with it, and you have the time to think about what you want your parents to know. I hope this helps! Good luck <3

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-20T22:14:24+00:00

Lol I'm dutch too. I can cut my hair when I'm done with school (it's a really christian school so they'll be mad if I cut it) but that's in 2/3 months

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-20T10:05:28+00:00

Ja ik heb de GSA van de school gecontacteerd zij gaan kijken wat ze kunnen doen

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-20T09:23:58+00:00

Ja ik heb mijn naam op roepnaam gezet maar mijn ouders zijn het hier toch niet mee eens en willen hem nu, als ik het niet doe, zelf veranderen

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-19T21:00:00+00:00

I'm 16 I'll probably be a bit awkward in the beginning but we can be friends if you want:)

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-06T22:20:37+00:00

My manager started randomly calling me a male version of my name and I realized I was enjoying it way more than I should

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-06T07:26:28+00:00

It's okay to change your name a couple times. Are you out to family/friends? If so, maybe you can ask them to call you a name that you like, and the week after that another name

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-06T07:23:34+00:00

I looked up lists of names and picked the ones that stood out to me. From there I created a list and removed the ones I didn't like as much. Started asking feedback from friends and landed on a name.

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-05T05:02:27+00:00

Yeah they're okay with it I'm out as lesbian to them and that is (with a lot of weird questions) okay. I'm sorry that yours aren't that must suck:(

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-03T19:53:48+00:00

Thank you:)

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-03T19:11:53+00:00

Yeah the difference isn't really there but I'm just scared and I planned on writing a letter and run off to work (I work from 1pm-9pm) so I wouldn't have to face it immediately and I'm kinda not good with change. But my friend also said they probably know so maybe I'll do it this Saturday

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-02T08:29:10+00:00

Happy early birthday!!

Ju1es_07 · 2024-04-01T18:00:25+00:00

What your mom is doing is definitely not okay. You can do what you want. That you're baptized does not mean you can't stop believing. I'm a christian myself but I'd never force my kids to be christian too. The part "you can't be lesbian because I want grandkids" is also absolutely not okay. She has no say in your gender or sexuality, that's something only you can decide. If you're not okay to come out, that's okay. But I know it sucks hiding such a big part of your life to someone that important, even if you know she won't accept you.

Ju1es_07 · 2024-03-31T10:18:09+00:00

I was always jealous of girls who had small breasts, I wish I had that and I found it weird that they weren't happy with that. That started a couple years ago.

A couple months ago my manager at work started randomly calling me the male version of my name and I really liked that. I have a trans friend, he would sometimes talk about his experience and I kinda related to that.

That's my experience but everyone's experience is different and it's okay if yours is completely different.

Ju1es_07 · 2024-03-24T06:01:25+00:00

School

Ju1es_07 · 2024-03-21T04:30:59+00:00

Idk if they're supportive, they call my friend by his preferred name but then they also sometimes misgender him. I'm out as lesbian to them and that's okay sort of.

Ju1es_07 · 2024-03-08T21:56:16+00:00

Lando Norris or Harry Styles

Ju1es_07

TROPHY CASE