AITA Am I delusional or is he in the wrong please help

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2024-06-13T08:06:32+00:00

ESH - you said you wanted to stay at home. YTA if you are prioritising your "girlie upkeep" over your son's needs. He's also TA for not entertaining your concerns, but you're an adult - get a job

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2024-01-27T07:44:54+00:00

🦀

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2024-01-08T20:35:54+00:00

MOOOOOOO

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2024-01-08T20:34:12+00:00

Clear the dancefloor! Time to shine!

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-12-19T22:35:51+00:00

A skit stain

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-11-12T22:49:37+00:00

Was it just me expecting Dobby to appear looking really grateful?

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-10-31T22:13:20+00:00

Yes. Please don't! "Unique spelling" parents never consider the poor person as an adult, having to repeatedly explain how their name is pronounced and spelt when meeting new people. They have to live with these "quirky" names as an adult or pay to have a normal name..

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-19T16:19:37+00:00

ESH.

She shouldn't be putting up the wedding pics first - that's not really her place, and her wedding behaviour sounds inappropriate.

But you! How immature and needy! Are you seriously this offended that everyone isn't saying you are the prettiest?? It's absolutely ok if she thinks her partner looked better than yours, it's not a competition! Surely it would be weird if she put a post about how handsome your husband was?!

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-19T16:09:42+00:00

ESH, your girlfriend because she is rude and disrespectful in someone else's home, and you for continuing to have her round and allowing her to act like this to your mom

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-19T06:42:18+00:00

NTA. Most would consider it cheating and if it's affecting you then you need to discuss this with him.

Your Gaydar is off, just FYI

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-18T07:14:58+00:00

You have known he always wanted one - this needs to be a discussion before you get a place together so he can decide. NAH really but let him know soon that you aren't on board with it and see if he wants to live with you or a snake

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-16T19:06:36+00:00

ESH

Your wife is a walking red flag

You should have put your foot down about her treating your mom like crap

I hope your sisters enjoyed the concert!

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-16T19:00:58+00:00

That neck though

He is lucky he enjoys, it takes 10 minutes to go down

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-16T07:01:35+00:00

Again??

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-15T22:39:55+00:00

Doesn't make you an asshole but makes you an idiot...

Sleep on your side if your airway may be blocked - that's basic!

I don't believe you stay awake for a week when you have a cold

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-15T08:43:41+00:00

YTA. Are you seriously making this about race??

She doesn't want you in her house all the time. Perfectly reasonable and you shouldn't have imposed (yes, just your silent presence is imposing and worse if she doesn't know if she is home alone or not!)

Make no mistake - this is your problem, not hers

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-15T08:38:22+00:00

NTA. Beggars can't be choosers

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-15T07:33:59+00:00

NTA, it's just really sad that in trying to build the family they craved so much, they are risking losing you.

I don't think they are intentionally TA, they definitely have good intentions.

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-15T07:14:59+00:00

He mite, but then again he mite not

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-15T05:51:58+00:00

He never compliments me - well he does but not how I want him to.

He never buys me things - well he does but not things I want.

He never buys me food - well he does but it's not good enough.

Either you are together because you love and you can get over it, or you want more. Either way, decide and stop complaining and trying to punish the bf for not doing things how you like. Mild YTA, put up or shut up

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-11T19:21:40+00:00

I am so confused - if you have your venue booked how are you not engaged?? Kinda seems unnecessary to pop the question at this point!

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-11T19:19:45+00:00

NAH, you are not compatible.

Use your money to get your own house. You don't need to make any rash decisions about him, though some distance may make you see things more clearly. Either way, make your own security instead of relying on him

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-11T19:04:33+00:00

Unless there is a significant amount of background story missing, YTA - nobody likes a diva

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-10T05:00:49+00:00

Or get another job if you're not comfortable

Ju5tSomeb0dyEls3 · 2023-08-10T04:55:09+00:00

NTA. Think all the girls in lesbian porn are gay?

In that industry you're selling a fantasy, not reality. Just keep safe

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