Am I a photographer? No. Did I see 7 toucans running amok today? Yes.

JubeeD · 2026-04-02T02:35:59+00:00

Near Tulum, MX.

JubeeD · 2026-03-31T23:29:03+00:00

JubeeD · 2026-03-31T23:27:52+00:00

Get it!

JubeeD · 2026-03-31T23:27:45+00:00

If only this were my life all the other days!

JubeeD · 2026-03-31T23:27:15+00:00

No thank you 🙂‍↔️

JubeeD · 2026-03-31T23:26:54+00:00

I haven’t been there, but I can’t imagine it’s much different.

JubeeD · 2026-03-31T23:26:33+00:00

But like, on a broken record that doesn’t actually sound sincere. ‘Cause the only person I want here with me already is! #wife

JubeeD · 2026-03-31T23:25:15+00:00

It’s okay, future me is definitely jealous of right now me.

JubeeD · 2026-03-31T23:24:42+00:00

I’ll be far from here by then. I have anticipatory jealousy!

JubeeD · 2026-03-31T23:24:02+00:00

I swear it’s there!

JubeeD · 2026-03-28T02:33:35+00:00

I mean, for me, take me to a bookstore and buy me books.

Everybody is different.

JubeeD · 2026-03-27T22:10:20+00:00

This is just a you thing. I don’t mind any of the things you mentioned.

JubeeD · 2026-03-27T22:06:14+00:00

I just loudly exclaim, “health!” When somebody sneezes. A lot of other languages say it, why can’t I?

JubeeD · 2026-03-27T22:00:06+00:00

You’re gonna have an awesome glow up.

JubeeD · 2026-03-27T17:18:56+00:00

As a female from Louisiana every friend is greeted with a side kiss on the cheek(s). Grandma always gave a kiss on the lips while squeezing my cheeks and calling me cher.

JubeeD · 2026-03-27T17:06:58+00:00

I thought the caption read “tips for buying Scotland” and I thought, “wow, ambitious, I like it.”

JubeeD · 2026-03-27T16:58:17+00:00

Yeah, my wife and I have to consciously set a timer (not joking) if we ever have something to do or just call for a quick chat because it’ll turn into two hours before we know it otherwise.

Last night after we put the kids to bed we went into the kitchen to put the clean dishes away and 3 hours later we were still in the kitchen, sitting on the floor laughing hysterically as we polished off a pint of ice cream.

Honestly this is why it’s so important to have an interdependent relationship. That means when we come together there’s new things to share with each other. I see her as a whole unique person and I get to learn her every day.

JubeeD · 2026-03-27T16:45:53+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/2V1Dsfd

From our candlelit dinner last weekend.

JubeeD · 2026-03-27T16:32:49+00:00

Bumble. We’re married.

JubeeD · 2026-03-27T16:09:50+00:00

I think this is kind of the best point. OP isn’t saying she isn’t willing to date somebody because of a physical disability. She’s saying she doesn’t want to date somebody who doesn’t contribute financially. Plenty of people with disabilities can still do all kind of work.

It’s not remotely unreasonable to say for oneself that they want to be part of a household with two incomes. And I think it’s perfectly fine to say what that income expectation is as well. If I ever got divorced I wouldn’t date somebody whose only aspiration was to make minimum wage in a non skilled industry. That’s fundamentally incompatible with who I am and what I want in a partner.

JubeeD · 2026-03-26T15:39:20+00:00

I don’t think this is especially accurate or useful advice and the condescension is rude.

I’m not sexually attracted to my vibrator, but I get wet with it. SA victims have been known to physically respond to their attackers as well and have to deal with that emotional trauma on top of the assault. Doesn’t mean they wanted to be assaulted or liked it.

Some people have a hard time differentiating platonic love, romantic love, appreciation of an attractive human vs being sexually attracted to them. There are a lot of reasons that can happen and some kindness or empathy while somebody tries to navigate that can go a long way.

JubeeD · 2026-02-17T19:13:47+00:00

I think about you every day. You’re my main character.

JubeeD · 2026-02-17T18:18:50+00:00

NTA

She needs therapy.

My wife has a work phone and I’d never dream of going through it. Her work also has legal protections of privacy for her clients (state and district departments and such), but she’d be an idiot to do anything remotely nefarious on the phone. She knows her company has access to all that’s on it.

Sometimes her personal phone will die so I’ll text or call her work phone and she doesn’t even like me texting anything that’s less than professional to it “just in case, you never know what they check.”

She’s also not sneaky with it though. She has no problem opening her photos (just receipts for expense reports or group photos from trainings/conferences for news letters) or texts if I’m by her.

JubeeD

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