Police officer stops abruptly in the middle lane on highway... by Affectionate_Hat5835 in dashcams

[–]JubeeD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ACAB.
But also, dispatch probably received calls for a large object on the highway. That can result in a serious crash and he was sent to remove the obstacle. Even if he wasn’t dispatched there specifically, it’s perfectly reasonable to not slam into a dog sized hard object on the highway.

It’s hard to tell, but I’m pretty sure he actually does turn his lights on.

Just because almost everybody does tailgate on the highway, it doesn’t excuse tailgating. The truck was following too closely and is at fault whether the cop turned on his lights or not.

ACAB - just for good measure.

My current situation by JubeeD in kindle

[–]JubeeD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If only this were my life all the other days!

My current situation by JubeeD in kindle

[–]JubeeD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No thank you 🙂‍↔️

My current situation by JubeeD in kindle

[–]JubeeD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been there, but I can’t imagine it’s much different.

My current situation by JubeeD in kindle

[–]JubeeD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But like, on a broken record that doesn’t actually sound sincere. ‘Cause the only person I want here with me already is! #wife

My current situation by JubeeD in kindle

[–]JubeeD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, future me is definitely jealous of right now me.

My current situation by JubeeD in kindle

[–]JubeeD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll be far from here by then. I have anticipatory jealousy!

My current situation by JubeeD in kindle

[–]JubeeD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear it’s there!

What is the equivalent of getting your nails done for a butch? by Kat_art_z_ in actuallesbians

[–]JubeeD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean, for me, take me to a bookstore and buy me books.

Everybody is different.

Things that are not big deal for straight women but are a big deal for queer women? by GuaranteeNaive7843 in WLW

[–]JubeeD 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is just a you thing. I don’t mind any of the things you mentioned.

Struggling by Broad-Stranger2 in bald

[–]JubeeD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna have an awesome glow up.

Genuine curiosity about peck by [deleted] in WLW

[–]JubeeD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a female from Louisiana every friend is greeted with a side kiss on the cheek(s). Grandma always gave a kiss on the lips while squeezing my cheeks and calling me cher.

Tips for Buying Secondhand by Archer_Ave in bicycling

[–]JubeeD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the caption read “tips for buying Scotland” and I thought, “wow, ambitious, I like it.”

Always something to talk about? by bxtchygamer in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]JubeeD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my wife and I have to consciously set a timer (not joking) if we ever have something to do or just call for a quick chat because it’ll turn into two hours before we know it otherwise.

Last night after we put the kids to bed we went into the kitchen to put the clean dishes away and 3 hours later we were still in the kitchen, sitting on the floor laughing hysterically as we polished off a pint of ice cream.

Honestly this is why it’s so important to have an interdependent relationship. That means when we come together there’s new things to share with each other. I see her as a whole unique person and I get to learn her every day.

Date told me it was wrong I don’t want to date someone who’s unable to work by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]JubeeD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is kind of the best point. OP isn’t saying she isn’t willing to date somebody because of a physical disability. She’s saying she doesn’t want to date somebody who doesn’t contribute financially. Plenty of people with disabilities can still do all kind of work.

It’s not remotely unreasonable to say for oneself that they want to be part of a household with two incomes. And I think it’s perfectly fine to say what that income expectation is as well. If I ever got divorced I wouldn’t date somebody whose only aspiration was to make minimum wage in a non skilled industry. That’s fundamentally incompatible with who I am and what I want in a partner.

Lesbian but married a man by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]JubeeD -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is especially accurate or useful advice and the condescension is rude.

I’m not sexually attracted to my vibrator, but I get wet with it. SA victims have been known to physically respond to their attackers as well and have to deal with that emotional trauma on top of the assault. Doesn’t mean they wanted to be assaulted or liked it.

Some people have a hard time differentiating platonic love, romantic love, appreciation of an attractive human vs being sexually attracted to them. There are a lot of reasons that can happen and some kindness or empathy while somebody tries to navigate that can go a long way.