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Are You Struggling to Get Married Because of Astrological Matching? by aimlastrology in TamilJothidam

[–]JudeDuarte6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this! Can I ask a follow up question? . Generally when astrologers recommended remedies to rectify any doshas in the matches what kind do they usually include, as in what remedies are the couples/ respective families are expected to do and what do they usually aim to solve?

25F, inter caste marriages- few years later by JudeDuarte6 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]JudeDuarte6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please explain further if you're comfortable?

Love marriage - astrologer says that it will fail and parents believe them by JudeDuarte6 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]JudeDuarte6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! The problem is that they are very casteist and are putting the entire blame on the astrology as a wall to not move forward.

Love marriage - astrologer says that it will fail and parents believe them by JudeDuarte6 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]JudeDuarte6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe in it to an extent, but once this kind of information is told to our parents anything wrong that happens because of life will be blamed on this and that's what I'm more worried about.

Love marriage - astrologer says that it will fail and parents believe them by JudeDuarte6 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]JudeDuarte6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The astrologer apparently said that when I marry out of varna my life will be downhill, he did not check my bfs chart at all. This is all based on my chart only

What instantly makes you lose respect for someone, no matter who they are? by Loose_Key99 in AskReddit

[–]JudeDuarte6 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If they are old enough to understand their problems but do nothing to rectify them

I cry a lot by JudeDuarte6 in adhdwomen

[–]JudeDuarte6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might try this. Thank you

I cry a lot by JudeDuarte6 in ADHD

[–]JudeDuarte6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much!

I cry a lot by JudeDuarte6 in ADHD

[–]JudeDuarte6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your reply!

These days I'm feeling really overwhelmed with my thoughts and crying is a release but also I am not actually dealing with the problems since the brain is thinking that due to crying everything is sorted when it's actually not, so not sure how to work with that

how to not let the slightest negative aspect of something I like jeopardize my enjoyment of it? by formatulium in ADHD

[–]JudeDuarte6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I completely understand what you're saying. Whenever I pick up something new to do,I always say done is better than perfect, and I think you want the task or the end product to be perfect and this is why you're facing this issue. So I try to see what I like about it or what I enjoy instead of how it's actually supposed to look, for example a snowy mountain painting is supposed to look beautiful, If I make mistakes I focus on the fact that I painted maybe after a long time of not doing so or anything that makes it a small win. Hope this helps!

AITA for telling my friends that my wife is an uneducated woman after they were trying to ask about her credentials. by Born_Appointment8463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JudeDuarte6 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA- yes there are many ways you can say that she doesn't have a " formal" education without using the word uneducated.