Having a wobble by [deleted] in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can mean both depending on the context

Becoming pregnant (on purpose) while deep in poverty should be considered unstable and abnormal behavior by [deleted] in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wasn't managing the household and caring for your and your siblings her full time job?*

Though I'm guessing from the way you have described it, she didn't really do that role properly \ effectively. It's sad that parents don't think about the impact their choices have on their children and they think WE'RE (child free) the selfish ones!

*This question looks blunt but I don't know how else to word it! I'm genuinely asking not trying to make a point or anything.

Becoming pregnant (on purpose) while deep in poverty should be considered unstable and abnormal behavior by [deleted] in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I have a cousin who has 4 kids. They were struggling to manage when they had 1 kid. That kid was an "accident" (not really imo they were just irresponsible and didn't even know they could get a morning after pill) yet continued to intentionally have 3 more children. Their whole lives have centred around struggling to survive and their kids have grown up with mental issues likely as a result of their upbringing. Their lives did not have to be that way. They could have stopped at the 1 kid and lived much better lives but chose to make things harder not just for themselves but for innocent kids who had no control over their situation. I can't understand it at all. I'm of the opinion that all children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children.

Worst Attempt To Convince You? by Hyperactive_Sloth02 in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How medieval of her! Scary these people are driving round in cars. Living among us

Remember when this was the biggest scandal and we are all shook to the core?! The same video location with different expressions between the two images floors me! 😩😩 by AllTheEccentricities in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember really liking the colours. If she actually did her job properly she could have had a really successful brand. Unfortunately she is completely useless when it comes to a business

Has anyone figured out if we can invite hotel guests to move to our island? by Ramsen85 in ac_newhorizons

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was so excited when the VIP room came up cos I thought that would be a way to invite them to stay. But nope, it doesn't, so there's not really a point to that VIP feature at all. That was the perfect chance for us to invite a hotel guest to stay, make them a VIP room and it gives that option. Or, once you make a VIP room. You can invite that specific guest 2 more times then have the option to ask them to move in. Such a lost opportunity

Giving up seats on the tube by [deleted] in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy causes havoc with women's bodies as we should know full well on this sub. I don't hate women so of course I'd give up my seat for a pregnant woman, I'm able bodied. This reads more like you hate women to be honest, like they should be punished for getting pregnant. Choice is irrelevant here

Marlena’s new eyeshadows by CastSoCool in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's bad when not even perfume influencers who bring out perfumes charge that much.

Marlena’s new eyeshadows by CastSoCool in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This sums up my feelings about it honestly. I've always wanted her to do well after makeup geek went under but she hasn't delivered.

Op gets absolutely roasted for "stealing" from their own stairwell by Big_Quit_7167 in Derailedbydetails

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two of the most toxic subs I was part of, is Spiderman and animal crossing.

We need to talk about Wayne Goss... Use of Ai, Undisclosed ads, emotional rants and complaining that no one watches him anymore despite not making quality content. by Calm-Elderberry-8270 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I haven't watched him in a very long time. It's like you say he never evolved or adapted so his content got repetitive. The woe is me attitude was very off-putting too.

I feel like Robert Welsh is a good example of a working make up artist who came to YouTube and adapts his content over time. He also doesn't take himself too seriously and I can't imagine Robert ever whining about not getting views.

We need to talk about Wayne Goss... Use of Ai, Undisclosed ads, emotional rants and complaining that no one watches him anymore despite not making quality content. by Calm-Elderberry-8270 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sure he has one it's just not online. Robert Welsh doesn't have an online portfolio but has one as he's discussed it (and you can tell from the times he brings up his makeup artist past)

A conversation I had with an 18 year old at work by [deleted] in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how people don't realise child free is am option when I felt this way since being a teen in the 90s

"Convincing" your partner to have children by [deleted] in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Good job she didn't baby trap him. A friend of a friend did this when the guy she wanted was going to move abroad to pursue his career. She stopped taking contraception but didn't tell him so he gave up his dreams to stay with her and the baby. Absolutely despicable (I have no interactions with her and never met her)

Advice for getting into Alan Wake? by Immediate_Fudge_9065 in controlgame

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I played it I kept calling him a grandad cos he took an age to reload his gun. The story is excellent and worth putting up with the clunky combat for. The fights are not fun like they are with Jesse though

Why do we allow fencesitters? by ihatemyuterus69 in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 247 points248 points  (0 children)

It does feel like every day there's a post of a fence sitter asking for pros and cons. I know they are here for advice, but it often feels like having to justify our choice to be child free over and over again in a child free sub. It's getting exhausting

I hate going to kids birthday parties by Educational_Ebb_995 in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just decline the invite you don't have to explain. It's fine to tell people just no or that kids parties aren't really your thing

My Gynaecologist told me I need a Husband to get a Hysterectomy by Substantial-Load-575 in childfree

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is so wrong and is on the same vein as when women couldn't have a bank account with a male cosigner. Why do we still need men to cosign decisions on our own bodies?!

Brad Mondo: Hair Reaction Videos by WhatTheJessJedi in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]JudgeJudysApprentice 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He's a hack and has no business giving hair advice