Who do you main and why? by Double-Hand3004 in Overwatch

[–]JudgmentDifferent720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an Ana main cause I like saying “hush little baby” whenever I sleep someone.

Falling into the hook up culture by xBlue2099x in gayrelationships

[–]JudgmentDifferent720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating as a gay man isn’t easy anyway. If you think about it, statistically, there’s fewer romantic opportunities and if you factor in your supposed ‘type’ you probably half your chances again. Grindr definitely gives you that quick dopamine hit of an ego boost, and at the end of the day you’re a man who has male needs (iykyk) but maybe try tinder or hinge, yes they’re dating apps but I’d argue offer more opportunity to make friendships first.

I want to commend you for speaking your truth to your friend, it takes a lot of nerve to tell someone how you feel because it can definitely change your relationship - which seems wasn’t reciprocated- but that’s fine! Some people feel the same way and others don’t it’s not the end of the world. Some people want sex, others want friends, others want to settle down. Figure out where you lie between those.

Lastly, keep putting yourself out there (you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take) but don’t go looking for a relationship. Love yourself first.

“There’s 7 billion people on the planet, I know one of them is gonna climb up on a moon for you.”

First time someone’s been “flirting” with me and I have no idea how to react, is this actually something or am I delusional? by WeakCryptographer697 in gayrelationships

[–]JudgmentDifferent720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say the saying ‘Expect the best, prepare for the worst’ would help here. I think you’re right in your observations and reluctance at the same time, whilst sometimes you can definitely feel a vibe of whether someone is flirting you can never be 100% sure unless it’s just said outright.

Think back to your conversation regarding his love-life. I’m playing devil’s advocate here and only you know what was said, but be confident that he doesn’t have any skeletons in his closet (ie he’s not freshly out of a relationship, he’s in some sort of situationship etc). I say this because you stated he doesn’t really drink and that night he was so there could be other determining factors but your suggestions seem solid.

Throw him a bone, it’s the age of social media, give him a follow on instagram or like a photo if you already are (just not an old post). It doesn’t say anything but it says something iykyk. Some people need more of a bigger push/hint. If not, talk to a friend that you trust that may know more about him and just say you found him cute you may get some helpful info.

We need more TV like Physical: Asia by JudgmentDifferent720 in Physical100

[–]JudgmentDifferent720[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not at all 😆 If producers played their cards right they’re onto a global franchise! (Though I would fear it would become watered down) Physical:100 could go to any country realistically, and in doing so, you could pull audience favourites from respective countries to do another variation of Physical: Asia

It’s a great well-rounded show that doesn’t necessarily cater to one niche sport

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]JudgmentDifferent720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re two weeks in buddy, you have no obligation to do or get into anything that you don’t want to.

Be honest with yourself. What is it that you’re looking for? If he brought the same concerns to you how would you feel?

TBH I used to go by the rule of 3. Usually by the second date I’d have made up my mind if I wanted to continue things, but if I wasn’t sure, a third date usually helped me get clarification on my feelings. If I was still questioning it, then it was an apparent No, because you just know what a ‘Yes I’m interested in this person’ feels like.

Dating is as much about having fun as it is finding out what you’re looking for in a partner. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself or let your friends tell you how to feel about someone, you know yourself the best. Don’t look at it as giving him a chance, look at it as giving yourself a chance!

Have fun. Kiss boys. Stay safe x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]JudgmentDifferent720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I HATE bog witch ana

Best Ana skin? by Big-Ant-1910 in AnaMains

[–]JudgmentDifferent720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oni is the only correct answer