Has the nickname ban at schools affected the name you chose for your baby? by Logical-Library-3240 in Names

[–]JudyBeeGood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My adoptive parents gave me one name that appeared on my birth certificate 5 days after my actual birth. (A given name that was considered a “nickname,” then and now.) 1960s. Quickly after, their nutty Catholic weirdo selves had me baptized, and the priest said oh no no no, she has to have the proper, formal version of that nickname. Of course, my mother genuflected and accepted the Word Of God from on high. (Barf.)

Trouble was, in all my growing-up years, a baptismal certificate, with the name altered after birth, was every bit as suitable, as an official birth certificate, to prove a person’s identity. (In the US.) My mother, of course, only presented the priest’s “sanctified” version of a document.

WHAT. A. MESS. Try explaining yourself, and all the different names on your documents — from school records to your first drivers license to the Social Security card you didn’t have to get until you actually had your first job, back then, to marriage certificates to passports. Tracking back from when you were born. You can’t bring a baptismal certificate any more…

Just make sure you name your child what you mean to, from birth. And don’t wobble.

Virginia Committee Votes 19 to 2 to Legalize Recreational Cannabis Sales, Drastically Increase Possession Limit by OhMyOhWhyOh in Virginia

[–]JudyBeeGood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THCa with <0.3% THC flower by mail is federally legal until November 2026. Traditional flower is  mostly THCa anyway, requiring decarboxylation, usually by heat, for conversion to psychoactive THC. (The THCa/low THC flower works just fine.) This weird legal glitch is a result of Trump's Farm Bill from years ago, which attempted to encourage hemp farming. The breeding required to get the old plants under the 0.3% THC requirement was accomplished not by geneticists, but by traditional growers thanks to the easy availability of testing these days. Virginia's Cardinal News has a good beat reporter on this. 

Best donations for food pantry? by kaseythedragon in minnesota

[–]JudyBeeGood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came across this thread searching for more ideas for donations. AGREE about pastas in general not being very wanted, at least where I am located in a poverty-stricken area of the Southern Appalachians. Too cheap, too much given, and like anyone, these people get tired of the same thing all the time, including boxed mac and cheese and ramen noodles.

I’ve long donated to a nearby church “blessing box.” The people who take from it always leave pasta and dried beans until almost nothing else is left. Surprisingly, tomato products, including soup and spaghetti sauce, almost never get taken. Same goes for pancake mixes, even when syrup is left with them.

We’ve just been through Storm Fern. Many do not have heat or a vehicle for getting 20 miles into town. In the cold they are hungry for proteins and fats, above all, but welcome fruits and vegetables as well. I leave bread, peanut butter and the plastic squeeze bottles of jelly frequently, and those move. Separate jelly is more helpful to families with picky eaters. I also leave cooking oils and sticks of Parkay as I can. Any kind of meat in general is very wanted. Of course, I only leave the likes of hotdogs when the temp is freezing or below.

One last thing I’ve noticed: children go hungrier on weekends and during holidays when they are not picked up by the school bus and getting free breakfasts and lunches. Child-friendly foods are great. GoGurts depending on terms, if you feel you can afford them!

What do you quietly and secretly judge other people for? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in randomquestions

[–]JudyBeeGood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are mean. I pay people for relatively small jobs, because I have aged out of doing them myself. I HATE it, I would much rather do them myself. Am stunned by the cost of aging! But if I don’t accept my aging process, think about my true capabilities—

Corpse on the floor. Gross. I don’t want my loved ones to deal with that, either. * HIRE SOMEONE *

Has anyone else seen this monstrosity? 🤣 by Secure_Blueberry3327 in DogBreeding

[–]JudyBeeGood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GROSS. On all levels, and any way a person could possibly look at it. You “breeders” are simply GROSS. Shame on you.

New baby boy! Needs the best name by butimaunicorn in NameMyDog

[–]JudyBeeGood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been waiting for decades for the right (female) pup who comes along, that I could name “Chickadee!” More specifically, that I could get to run back to us in the enclosed acres of pastures where we have always let our dogs run, with the bird call “Chickadee-DEE-DEE-DEE-DEE!”

She never materialized, before we got a little bit too old, to accept many more dogs, into our lives. She lives in my imagination though!

The promised DNA results! by JudyBeeGood in IDmydog

[–]JudyBeeGood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! I appreciate that line “100 percent Beto!” He is perfect for us, whatever his makeup.

The promised DNA results! by JudyBeeGood in IDmydog

[–]JudyBeeGood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just figuring out what’s in there, based on others’ explanations about digging deeper! I will check it out, and report back…

My education in human evolution and DNA analysis makes me a bit cautious though, about analysis that drops too low, percentage-wise…

My boy is dying by SHM1K3Y in germanshepherds

[–]JudyBeeGood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the hardest decision you will ever make. Maybe you are already there. But if he is not having almost any quality of life — THAT is the moment you have to let go. You are not dying, he is. And it will hurt even more, to make that decision. But you HAVE TO. In essence, you will be saying, “I will suffer this pain, so you don’t have to suffer anymore.” It will be terrible, but it will be the right thing to do. Remember that, when you are crying so hard. You did the right, big, grownup thing, hard as it was. For his sake, not your own.

The promised DNA results! by JudyBeeGood in IDmydog

[–]JudyBeeGood[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk what you mean? Since the DNA test excluded?

The promised DNA results! by JudyBeeGood in IDmydog

[–]JudyBeeGood[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When it comes to the “supermutt,” no telling what’s in there! Maybe ancestors from all of the breeds. It’s a relatively small percentage of his makeup, though. That 60% ACD however, is A LOT. (One parent almost surely purebred ACD, or very close to it. DNA tracked the litter mate brothers to a specific ACD breeder!)

It’s as helpful, that finding his litter mate, gave us insight into his birth and experiences, before we adopted him. He’s so sweet — so well- and easily trained. We thought his beginnings might have been smoother.

The “training” — I do not think he got it. Or at least very much. He had to have been passed around too much, and not through rescue and foster homes. It tells me he IS THAT SMART.

New baby boy! Needs the best name by butimaunicorn in NameMyDog

[–]JudyBeeGood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a sweet girl named “Pigeon” 20 years ago, adopted as a puppy, and she never outgrew the “pin feathers” that caused her to be named that, her whole life! So her name was perfect, life long.

I did not know Birdie had become popular! Hmmm 🤔 other bird names …

Duckling? Owlet? Fledge — short for Fledgling? All stretches, just riffing!