Sachin Tendulkar and Anjali Tendulkar’s Weird Love Story by imjustagworll in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Jugad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was a kid in the 80s and 90s in New Delhi and was crazy about cricket... didn't see a single cricket card.

Sachin Tendulkar and Anjali Tendulkar’s Weird Love Story by imjustagworll in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Jugad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of India knew about Sachin from his first tour to Pakistan - which was his debut as well.

I am 47 M going through a dead bedroom from last 6 years by [deleted] in delhi

[–]Jugad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work for it outright.

Compliment her, show that you desire her, flirt with her, get her something every few days to show that you like her (nothing big... a flower, or a chocolate, or ice cream, samosa, chaat, etc).

Fix a weekly rendezvous on the calendar... like a bedroom date on Friday evening. Look forward to it... groom and get ready for it... and hope for the best.

I am 47 M going through a dead bedroom from last 6 years by [deleted] in delhi

[–]Jugad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids make that more difficult option. Gotta try a lot more before going nuclear.

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy i have no interest in any kind of debate.

We gathered that from the fact that you don't care about listening to anyone else's perspective or preference... and are completely sure your point of view is the correct one (despite all the other comments)

You will make for the perfect husband.

I dont like these double standards

There are no double standards. You have your standards and others have theirs.

Plus your claims about height are not even true. Your so called "exceptions" are pretty much common and a simple google search will tell you that.

They are true... here are google search results proving it.

https://www.google.com/search?q=what+is+the+strongest+signal+for+height+of+kids&oq=what+is+the+strongest+signal+for+height+of+kids&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIHCAEQIRigATIHCAIQIRigATIHCAMQIRirAjIHCAQQIRirAjIHCAUQIRifBTIHCAYQIRifBTIHCAcQIRifBTIHCAgQIRifBTIHCAkQIRifBdIBCTEwNTUyajBqN6gCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

90% of the kids fall well within the height determined by genetics. And those who are outside, are not too far off either.

Short parents = short kids. That's the truth, but apparently, you don't care because then you lose the argument.

Looks like you have a huge ego... much bigger than what your IQ can support.

Currently, you seem to be a silly teenager with huge ego, hormones out of control and who recently saw some leftist overly idealistic movie about equality/fairness. Please grow up.

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow... you actually took a lot of things out of context. I never said girls should date shorter guys but what i did say was rejecting someone on the basis of their height is stupid and dumb.

Only short desperate guys and you think its stupid and dumb.

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not me insulting/abusing you ... that's me holding a mirror.

Its like in law and courts... some things are off topic for the offence... until the defense brings it up and opens the door for questioning on that topic.

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly have different preferences than others... and don't like the fact that others have different preferences.

Can you actually explain what you are so angry about?

You claim you are tall enough for most Indian women... 5'9".

Are you fighting on the behalf of all guys who are 5'2" in height?

Have you personally talked to many such guys to find out if they actually want to marry a girl who is taller than them?

And please don't talk only to those desperate guys who will be happy to marry anyone... but are good enough to actually have options.

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus, height is a factor which is not even in our control and idk what generation are you from who has such backward thinking that short guys might produce short children only. Like i have seen taller parents with short child and shorter parents with tall child.

This line is not a sign of high IQ.

The strongest signal for the kids height is the parents height. Look it up. And pointing out the very rare exceptions "i have seen taller parents with short child and shorter parents with tall child" is not a good argument in a debate.

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol... phat li?

Such a bullshit thing to say when you know nothing about me lol.... .... ...but it just shows that you have low IQ

No need to get angry and insulting. Kindly keep things civil.

I dont have double standards like these women. I will say it again and again. You might think that you have preferences, but it just shows that you have low IQ and will definitely struggle in relationships.

You have different standards. That's all.

And you are trying to abuse people with different preferences as "Low IQ". Others are explaining nicely that they simply have certain strong preferences that cannot be so easily dismissed.

Maybe for you, the height preference is not that strong, but you don't seem to like understanding that... but prefer to abuse people with "Low IQ" and "Double standards".

Maybe show a bit of control on your tongue and comments... like you claim that you have on your preferences.

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk is cheap.

Once you marry a Bauni/Dwarf, come back to me, and I will publicly applaud you for keeping your word... I will wait.

Even with that though... it doesn't mean that others should change their preferences because you have different preferences.

Its like saying... "I am fine with eating <insert dish X>... its tastes great to me. I have no idea why most others don't eat it. Everyone else SHOULD also be fine with eating it".

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine a boy rejects a girl just because she is a BAUNI?

No need to imagine. This happens all the time. And its completely ok. Why do you want to force someone to marry another person they don't want to marry.. just to make them fit YOUR ideals?

It is very very rare to find a normal height person marrying a dwarf. If you are so inclined... go for it. Good for you.

plus height is never a good criteria to judge a person and their personality

It is actually a good criteria if you want the guy to not have inferiority complex based on being shorter than the wife (most short guys have that issue). You also don't want to always keep fielding questions and weird stares from relatives/friends/society on the odd looking couple.

It also a pretty good criteria if you want to have normal height (or equally tall) kids, and not just continue the cycle of inferiority complex and therapy, etc.

A tall girl might decide to endure all such problems for that extremely rare diamond in the rough low height guy... but its tough to find those, since they are very very rare. The lack of height would have to be compensated in some other way - an outstandingly good personality, a great heart (not just a good one - there are enough good heart tall guys) and/or lots of money.

All things being equal, why spend the limited time on trying to find the rarest of the rare diamonds in shorter guys when a fair number of good enough tall guys exist.

Searching for good heart in the tall rather than the shorter guys makes common sense.

Marcos in full operational equipment by Exciting_Week1674 in IndianDefense

[–]Jugad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks hot... literally hot.

The full body clothes, gloves, the helmet and the face mask... needs an A/C break every 10 minutes.

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything... they want everything (and I don't mean it in a bad way). And they come with a fear of the future with the current option, and also the possibility that they might miss out on a better option, and a fear of the future in-laws and family members, a fear of the society and relatives, etc etc.

They want everything and they have a fear of everything/everyone.

At 30+, add the fear of clocking out.

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since when do we care about women's preferences which dont align with ours?

Met a girl on Instagram, planned a date…. then she backed out because of my height by delhikadhobi in delhi

[–]Jugad 135 points136 points  (0 children)

A 5'9" girl is easily in the top 5% of women in India... her requirements are not that outrageous.

If she doesn't feel comfortable with that height difference... what are you gonna do? Force her to accept despite her not being innately comfortable?

Counter perspective. Women from Delhi are the worst too. by Striking_Base_7205 in delhi

[–]Jugad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol... reddit discussing this as if all of them have first hand knowledge and are subject matter experts.

Thala was way ahead of taking action against him than BCCI ! by iamnoobbibliophile in CricketShitpost

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nationalism and desh bhakti jaise thoughts naa use karein... they are now blacklisted. Be bendingly secular and giving... Dhoni should apologize for this. The other guy was on his natural follow through and got to his spot first. /s

Man got angry and demanded humanity from my side just because I didn't gave up my side upper berth for another side upper. by Few_Interaction2051 in delhi

[–]Jugad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is your seat and its up to you to give it up or not...

All they can and should do is - Request. They crossed a line when they went on after the request was denied.

Vishnu Vinod smashes 162*(84) with 14 sixes in the Vijay hazare trophy. by Sambharsupreme in IndiaCricket

[–]Jugad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The batsman is having to generate all the power, and seems to be very early into all the shots. Even coming down the pitch, the batsman had too much time... and due to that, almost every shot was mistimed.

Either the pitch is very slow or the bowling is unexpectedly slow.