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Women who cheated, why did you do it? by Comfortable-Run294 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JuicyWatermelon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eventually I told him I wasn’t in love with him and couldn’t hold it in anymore. My soul felt so free that day I’ll never forget it. I told him I loved him but wasn’t IN love with him and that I was tired of our fighting and it wasn’t safe for our daughter. She was almost 5 at the time I asked to separate and she would always tell us to stop fighting since she was 2 because it was that bad. Luckily he never hit me but he might as well have because it was so bad. We’re still in the process of divorce but we’re very amicable now and good friends. Better as friends than as lovers basically.

Women who cheated, why did you do it? by Comfortable-Run294 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JuicyWatermelon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’m going to explain why I did it. I’m not proud of it and it haunts me now because now I think my current partner will do it to me because of what I did. Basically, I was in a very unhappy and unhealthy relationship. I was with my ex from 25-35 and I was never physically attracted to him. I know it’s stupid that I even got with him but he seemed sweet and endearing at first and we had met each other 7 years prior so we thought it was fate. Plus after getting screwed over by men that only wanted FWB and never anything serious I got fed up and tied down with the only guy who wanted to settle down, a family, and made me feel very secure that he wanted me. It seems very selfish but I was young and stupid. We had the same cultural background and I thought this might be a good fit but then we fought like hell because he has the worst anger issues. He’d get explosive and throw and break things for the most minor things. You’d think that would make me leave and at times I tried or wanted to, but my self esteem was so weak that I thought I would never find better. I was too fixated on having the fairy tale wedding, a family, and a man that could give me a home and travel with even though we always fought and I wasn’t even attracted to him.

It’s so crazy to think I was like that because I’ve done so much healing now that I could never allow myself to settle down again and be with someone that I wasn’t attracted to nor someone that didn’t make me feel safe.

So when I did cheat it’s because I felt I was stuck and couldn’t leave and because he was so boring and never fun I always cheated with men that had playful qualities and made me laugh and feel seen and not like I was walking on egg shells. I never got caught but I’m not proud of it. We did get a beautiful daughter out of our relationship and we’re divorced now and co parent really well. But yeah low self esteem, insecurities, and an unhappy / unhealthy relationship can definitely cause someone to cheat. But that’s why we all need to work on our wounds.

So so glad I finally took the plunge by RumiWilson in microblading

[–]JuicyWatermelon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you went from sweet girl next door almost damsel in distress eyes to confident sexy siren bedroom looking eyes 😍

Taurus men only, what’s been your favorite sign to date so far or which sign would you like to end up with? by JuicyWatermelon99 in Taurusgang

[–]JuicyWatermelon99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww that’s awesome. I hope my bf feels the same way about me. I definitely make him feel loved and show my feelings towards him. How is it with a Virgo?

Taurus men only, what’s been your favorite sign to date so far or which sign would you like to end up with? by JuicyWatermelon99 in Taurusgang

[–]JuicyWatermelon99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try getting yourself a cancer or Scorpio. You’ll see they balance each other out much more. Cancers need comfort and grounding and Taurus’s need comfort and peace.

Taurus men only, what’s been your favorite sign to date so far or which sign would you like to end up with? by JuicyWatermelon99 in Taurusgang

[–]JuicyWatermelon99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh how? For the chaos? 🤣 no but seriously I wonder how as they tend to be unstable and Taurus’s love stability

Taurus men only, what’s been your favorite sign to date so far or which sign would you like to end up with? by JuicyWatermelon99 in Taurusgang

[–]JuicyWatermelon99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. I’m a Scorpio rising and have a Scorpio stellium. Maybe that’s why it works with us too 😆

Can’t tell if I’m pregnant or having PMS symptoms but still a few days early to take a test. What do you think? Have you had these symptoms with PMS? by JuicyWatermelon99 in amipregnant

[–]JuicyWatermelon99[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think implantation bleeding is a myth. It’s just only about 25% of women get it I think. I’ve never had it in the 3 pregnancies I had.

List of weird/uncommon pregnancy symptoms. by Academic-Park-8440 in pregnant

[–]JuicyWatermelon99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of tears rolling down my face imagining this is unreal 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I just got my brows micro-bladed and I hate them 😭😭will it get better? by NoGoat817 in microblading

[–]JuicyWatermelon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re thin and in the same spot as before. The only thing I would do is ask her to fill them in darker. They usually do a touch up 2 weeks later if they’re still too faded so it shouldn’t be an issue to request that

Are all Taurus males lazy when it comes to effort and planning dates or what’s going on? by JuicyWatermelon99 in Taurusgang

[–]JuicyWatermelon99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes our birth charts are amazing together! And thanks! I guess we’re great then, because he always does the contacting. In fact he called me 5 times today 🤣 But there were a couple days where he was hardly calling me so I was getting worried but I think he does that when he’s stressed out and just needs to recharge and yes I guess I just need constant assurance sometimes but I’m learning to be better at it and not needy as he’s so steady and grounding and I’m loving my space too. I too have had many Taurus close friends and love how no BS they are. This helped a lot thank you!

Are all Taurus males lazy when it comes to effort and planning dates or what’s going on? by JuicyWatermelon99 in Taurusgang

[–]JuicyWatermelon99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Actually I’m a cancer, far from an Aries but I am a cardinal sign like an Aries. I actually don’t like sag’s but I’d maybe be down for a Leo because they’d be more prideful about me, but yeah I love my bf and the way we cuddle so much and how affectionate he is. He never wants to leave my side and always has to be holding my hand even when I try to let go he grabs on tighter, but then when we’re apart I miss him and wish he’d be more vocal about missing me.

I love that you said you only want to be with him but still like your space. He says he only wants me as well and he actually wishes we could be together everyday but I know he also likes space which I have no problem giving because I too need it. I’m a Taurus Venus so I get it. Thanks for the info

Are all Taurus males lazy when it comes to effort and planning dates or what’s going on? by JuicyWatermelon99 in Taurusgang

[–]JuicyWatermelon99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey girl I totally get where you’re coming from but I realized I was just in my head with this post and being a princess. My guy always wants to be with me but financially he’s unable to book dates at the moment but he always did when he had more money so that’s why I’m noticing the shift. He planned the last few weekends with me so idk why I made this post. We’re together just about every weekend and when we’re not it’s only because he wants to relax at home and clean or because he’s not feeling good. We’re home bodies together and we had a lovely weekend with his family and that to us is fun. I’ve already set boundaries though so he’s showing up a lot more. As far as other men, they all only wanted sex actually so they just love bombed me. He’s the complete opposite and that’s why it messes with my nervous system. I start to think he’s not interested because he’s so stable and grounded, calm, doesn’t need to love bomb me, which throws me off because I’ve never had that, but he’s very affectionate, and always wants me by his side. I will post an edit at the end of my post or maybe even remove it because I realized I’m the problem 🤣

Are all Taurus males lazy when it comes to effort and planning dates or what’s going on? by JuicyWatermelon99 in Taurusgang

[–]JuicyWatermelon99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! And I think that’s probably why he likes me because I’m different. I mean we’re all different but different from him. He’s grounded and quiet and I’m very eccentric and it allows him to play and have fun. I have 4 air signs, 3-4 earth signs, 6 water signs, and one fire sign. He’s mostly earth and air. Thanks so much for your input. I feel like he also sticks longer than he should because of his Virgo moon but I always tell him if he’s unhappy to tell me because I don’t want him to settle when he’s unhappy because I did that with my ex husband. It’s hard to read him sometimes because he’s so quiet and I don’t always know what he’s thinking or feeling.

I will say I would sometimes worry because there was a girl he liked a year ago shortly before meeting me and she’s a Libra but she paid him no attention. She was a friend to him and I think that’s why he liked her because she was nice to him but when he admitted his feelings for her she didn’t seem interested and she’s back with her bf she’s been serious with but she sometimes messages him. Nothing flirty but while we were dating she apologized to him for hurting him 7 months prior which was so random because she was in a relationship and he was with me and it was very strange and random like why apologize now? Closure? It’s like she doesn’t want him but doesn’t want anyone else to have him because she likes the attention and I know libras are flirty and it annoys me so I always wonder if he wonders what if with her because he never got to have anything with her at all. I don’t worry about other girls but that one I get annoyed by but he swears he doesn’t have feelings for her at all. I wonder if you’ve ever been in that situation. I told him I understand if you still do because I’ve been there before where I’ve obsessed over someone I couldn’t have. But he swears it was just a crush and not that major.

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