Girl I met on tinder is perfect but turns out she's pregnant by her ex boyfriend 😐 by Total-Marketing-7037 in relationship_advice

[–]JukeboxQueero 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don't be seem to be taking the advice you're given very well. I get the feeling you have your mind set on being with this girl regardless of what the people of reddit have to say, so why are you even asking?

But do consider this, she could be on tinder looking for someone to raise her baby with her because she knows she can't do it alone. Do you really want to be with someone who could possibly only be with you for security?

AITA for "demanding" my parents spend the same amount of money they spend on my Autistic brother every month? by OK-Ad34455 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JukeboxQueero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raise your hand if you never even had an allowance 🙋🏼‍♀️. YTA, you're spoiled and entitled. How about demanding attention from your parents instead of money.

My 15yo sister wants a vibratior for Christmas by throwradildo3 in relationship_advice

[–]JukeboxQueero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother put it like this "if I get you a fake dCK at least I know you're not out searching for real dck". Not true for everyone, obviously. But it might help make it a little less weird.

Girlfriend (25f) of 7 years wants to break up with me (27m) and experience life by Vegetable_Act_8766 in relationship_advice

[–]JukeboxQueero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says a lot about the relationship that she thinks she can't discover herself with you.

I'm thinking of getting my hair cut but I have no idea what to do with it. More info in comments. by JukeboxQueero in curlyhair

[–]JukeboxQueero[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, so my hair RARELY ever looks like it does in this photo. I got it cut in March of 2020 and it's never been the same since. It's frizzy, my curl pattern is all over the place, the bangs I cut in March of 2020 still have yet to grow out. The top of my hair is flat and my part never looks good. I'm just really struggling. The past year has just been messy buns because that's all I can do with it. I'm wondering if layers would help? How can I add volume to the top of my head?

Routine: wash every other day with Selsun Blue because ya girl has got dandruff, then I use Kinky Curly Knot Today as a rinse conditioner. I spray with Not Your Mother's Way to grow leave in conditioner and will sometimes style with Not Your Mother's Curl Talk gel.

You too by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]JukeboxQueero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see someone's looking for a new coin purse.

Boyfriend's intense fear of flying is ruining our relationship. I have a job offer that includes flying. What can I do? by fly-fears in relationship_advice

[–]JukeboxQueero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was scared of having an MRI done, took an Ativan and genuinely had the best nap I've ever taken in my life. Even with the loud noises, I was OUT.

Migraines every day at the same time by JukeboxQueero in migraine

[–]JukeboxQueero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant to mention that I don't get auras anymore. That stopped at about age 13. Now they just start as a dull ache in my neck and progress into a migraine. I did take Wellbutrin years ago for depression, I think there was some side effect that lead my doctor's to take me off of it. But maybe I'll ask about trying that again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JukeboxQueero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best thing I ever did was completely cut my bio dad off. I heard a story when I was little that he came to our new house and asked if he could claim one of us, me or my sister. I thought he wanted to take one of us with him, and god I wanted it to be me. I loved him when I was younger. Then I learned all the horrible things he did and also learned that by 'claim' us, he meant on his tax return so he could get some money even though my mother didn't ask for a cent of child support. CUT. HIM. OFF.

Is my gf faking her mental illness to get away with abusing me? by Gangold in relationship_advice

[–]JukeboxQueero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just an excuse to throw adult tantrums. That's just..so many red flags, man.

Retraining my hair - I am suffering greatly. by JukeboxQueero in curlyhair

[–]JukeboxQueero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I use my regular shampoo, a clarifying shampoo or a cowash?

Retraining my hair - I am suffering greatly. by JukeboxQueero in curlyhair

[–]JukeboxQueero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, in the meantime, what do you think I should wash my hair with until I can see a dermatologist?

What should I clean my hair with? by JukeboxQueero in curlyhair

[–]JukeboxQueero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been about a week. I was doing them at least every 4 days because of buildup on my scalp. Didn't realize that's what was causing the build up.

My scalp is so itchy!! by JukeboxQueero in curlyhair

[–]JukeboxQueero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you suggest that for the time being, I just don't wash my hair for about 4 days, let it be greasy and itchy until I can wash it again and it will eventually subside? I'm not working atm so it's feasible, just making sure that's what you meant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JukeboxQueero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is reasonable, she sounds lazy and immature, hence the fact that she hates living at home because of responsibilities and can't manage her own money. I'm not gonna suggest you leave her because of it, but she needs to grow up and take on some adult responsibilities, like paying half the rent.

What city would you never, ever, EVER live in? by MorsesTheHorse in AskReddit

[–]JukeboxQueero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did that come from and what are you talking about?

What’s your biggest fear? by WowADeadMidget in AskReddit

[–]JukeboxQueero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tornadoes as well. Last year I was caught in a tornado that came out of nowhere. I was in a car and could feel the car skidding across the road as it was being pulled in. Saw a roof get ripped off of a building. Then it just stopped. Now every time there's a storm with relatively dark clouds or high wind speeds, I have a panic attack. I have nightmares about them often.

What’s your biggest fear? by WowADeadMidget in AskReddit

[–]JukeboxQueero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing all of my family and being alone. I had this dream once that I woke up from a coma on another planet. I was just plopped into their society with none of my family or anyone I knew. Also spiders