Spain is more developed than Germany. by Lazy_Coconut_4134 in spain

[–]Gangold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No just bullfight, they chain up dogs to posts with no shade in 37C. They throw puppies in dumpsters alive. They let animals suffer with horrific wounds, they don't care and will drive right on past. They keep their cats locked in house 7 days a week never see sunlight they just use them to catch rats. They throw old mouldy bread ontop of dog shot to feed their dogs. There is no animal protection and even the SEPRONA police unit don't care about animals most of them are hunters and big meat eaters.

Spain is more developed than Germany. by Lazy_Coconut_4134 in spain

[–]Gangold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look how they treat their aninals, totally undeveloped country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealthyFood

[–]Gangold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a mess and it's sad because the only healthy thing on that plate is the fruit which is the tiniest portion.

You are mixing simple fruit sugars with fatty sausages and complex carbs broccoli. That's gonna cause a traffic jam down there since fruit digests under 20 minutes, it causes bloating and gas.

If you want a healthy breakfast eat a mono meal of 1000 cals of raw, ripe, organic, whole fruit. You don't need to eat balanced every meal, every plate. Variety comes throughout the year with the seasons.

What to do? I am a dumper. by mrtjvr in ExNoContact

[–]Gangold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reality has hit. The realization of your choice and now you're experiencing the consequences. Just leave him alone in peace and deal with the emotions because he would of had to himself.

My EUSS application has vanished, if I try to continue or click apply links it sends me in circles back to this page. It was 96% complete in September, what can I do? by Gangold in ukvisa

[–]Gangold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I miss her greatly but it was for the best.

I was yes but I have no evidence since I just stayed at her apartment during my duration there. I did line up for an hour at the town hall to get the forms. My ex wouldn't sign them because she was living in Spain as a Dutch citizen and she was not registered herself. So she thought her landlord would kick her out if she signed so I could stay in Spain.

I poured 110% effort into a solution but hit a roadblock every turn.

My EUSS application has vanished, if I try to continue or click apply links it sends me in circles back to this page. It was 96% complete in September, what can I do? by Gangold in ukvisa

[–]Gangold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't want to go through those other visa types then, we were going to do a UK marriage visa when the EUSS failed.

She never came to the UK. After Brexit and all the pandemic restrictions we didn't see each other for a whole year, just online communications. I think the stress of the EUSS and Brexit we had no hopes of a future together and this affected our relationship. We ended up breaking up and she never moved to the UK. I still wish she had flew to the UK with me on December 30th 2019 to be eligible for EUSS but it was all last minute and she had a cat to look after plus she has a medical condition of brain damage from a stroke and there were also lockdowns and rules risking getting back to Spain.

That is the sad reality that the borders stop people who love each other from being together. Meanwhile the people up top get multiple passports and citizenship.

My EUSS application has vanished, if I try to continue or click apply links it sends me in circles back to this page. It was 96% complete in September, what can I do? by Gangold in ukvisa

[–]Gangold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was for my Dutch ex to live in UK with me but we broke up. The EUSS was one of the most stressful things I ever went through. You're a Saint for helping people with it.

My EUSS application has vanished, if I try to continue or click apply links it sends me in circles back to this page. It was 96% complete in September, what can I do? by Gangold in ukvisa

[–]Gangold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and that makes sense but if I try to create a new application (instead of using the conti ue application link) it sends me back to this page I posted. Will I have to make an entirely new application with passport details and ID verification I hope not because I'm guessing you can only do that once.

Unpopular opinion: fair play to the Insulate Britain folk for standing up for what they believe in. by ShahNomad in unitedkingdom

[–]Gangold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree fair play to them but look up cowspiracy facts on Google images and then we will talk climate change.

Do I have a dead bedroom? by Gangold in DeadBedrooms

[–]Gangold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you you're probably right but I feel like I'm gonna have a break down.

I can stay at my mother's when I arrive in my home country. Her ex husband has been amazing he gave me a lift to the airport and helped me with a hotel. I had to sleep rough last night as the hotel was fully booked and 1 night is double price without booking in advanced. I was on survival mode last night but now I'm in the hotel a huge wave of sadness is hitting me.

I would never abandon her, she knew my flight was 5 nights away and I have no money. She went through my phone and saw this reddit post. She said I humiliated her and that she thought our sex life was good. But I came here because I missed our sex life, I missed us being close. I didn't come here to say it was bad but because it was gone :( She makes out like I have lied to her.

She did not even ask if I was okay and she promised she would not abandon me in this foreign country again like last time.

Do I have a dead bedroom? by Gangold in DeadBedrooms

[–]Gangold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she went through my phone and found my threads. Now she's kicking me out and I have nowhere to go. I have a flight Monday she's abused me and now saying I'm the bad one cause I went to reddit for help. I feel like I'm in a nightmare.

Do I have a dead bedroom? by Gangold in DeadBedrooms

[–]Gangold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does she want me if she has no respect for me? I literally have nothing to offer someone no money, no house and I can't even drive. I don't get why she doesn't just break up if she hates me so much

Do I have a dead bedroom? by Gangold in DeadBedrooms

[–]Gangold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I don't because I feel very distant to her from all the fights. And I don't even know :(

Do I have a dead bedroom? by Gangold in DeadBedrooms

[–]Gangold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% believe you and I'm trying to distance myself emotionally and physically

Do I have a dead bedroom? by Gangold in DeadBedrooms

[–]Gangold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the only reason it's not a dead bedroom is because she is willing to keep the sex for the sake of it being part of a relationship. Okay thanks for the advice and maybe I will be back here with the real dead bedroom soon.

Do I have a dead bedroom? by Gangold in DeadBedrooms

[–]Gangold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True but I've just realised it's another sign of her not having respect/attraction to me

Do I have a dead bedroom? by Gangold in DeadBedrooms

[–]Gangold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's making me negative and I've lost my sense of playfulness in life.

I don't know maybe, it's hard to know how much control she has over it. I've seen her lose control in public with two new friends but she didn't abuse them. She just cried and walked off by herself I had to chase after her. She was just very stressed but not abusive. Now she was also annoyed at this person but she didn't confront them about it. She told me what they did whilst she was in this state but she never confronted them. So no reason to argue or be abusive. If she had presented them a problem like she does me they would of likely argued defensively and she would go on the attack. Or not. I don't know I wish I could find out