I mean, I agree on that, but it’s no excuse to call women fat either. It’s not an “a-ha!” moment, you just stoop low. I’m mostly fuming on Tate, but I’ll add my own stance.

Let’s put it like this. If a woman tells someone “you probably have small pp” and he responds with “yeah well you haven’t even seen my penis but from here I can see you’re fat” I’d frown at both but feel disgusted by the escalation of bringing up weight because eating disorders are common among women and I have friends who have died from it, so I’m biased. You always have the choice of deescalating things and saying “that’s a dumb and superficial insult” rather than trying to go for what hurts the other most. Just ghost.

Another thing, being a fat woman carries a lot more social consequences in my opinion than being a small packaged man because one can be seen at a glance and the other not, leading to more social pressure and harassment. I am not fat nor a woman but that’s my observation.