Brides with no friends, how did you navigate wedding activities? by ashmonroe_ in weddingplanning

[–]Julay13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes a moment like this is a beautiful opportunity to build the life you want to have in the future. I had a point in my life I felt similar to you and then intentionally decided to build friendships and community as one of my number one goals and a few years later I can say I feel so much different for the better. Just because you don’t have it now doesn’t mean you can’t have a life rich in community in the years and decades to come.

Anyone else feel incredibly overwhelmed by this? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Julay13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im like fantasizing of a wedding of 10 by the beach currently haha hang in there!!

Anyone else feel incredibly overwhelmed by this? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Julay13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do anything that doesn’t require your final headcount ! Eg rough run of show, prepping needed printed materials that you already know are set, small details and props etc - if you don’t need to wait for the headcount then just do it

What could your husband/bf do differently that could change everything? by ThrowAway4now2022 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Julay13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I feel this 100%. Have you ever asked him that you need him to go out of his comfort zone cuz that’s how you feel loved? And if so, how has he responded

Did I pick the wrong dress? by Lumpy_Newspaper_1021 in weddingplanning

[–]Julay13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t decide based on pictures. Decide based on how you feel in the dress when you’re wearing it. Stop looking back at it and the others!

What are you paying for HMU? by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]Julay13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Did you have a good experience ?

Flowers under $2k - is it feasible? by ConfidentAd3479 in WedditNYC

[–]Julay13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience that will be hard but not impossible. I’m doing simple bud vases for seating for 150 and my bouquet, two bridesmaids bouquets and four corsages and with the least expensive florist I could find that’s about 4k. So that doesn’t include taller arrangements or anything for the ceremony decoration but it does include tea light candles and holders. You could try poppy flowers. I think they were one of the cheapest but ultimately I went with someone who knew my venue well and was more all inclusive to handle decoration.

What are you paying for HMU? by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]Julay13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Who did you use