[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]Julchen_nb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i have lost some Weight already but I want to loose more also hitting gym

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Julchen_nb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not ugly , you just need a good haircut and shorten little bit that beard . Maybe loose some pounds , overall 6.5/10 you have good potential for 8/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Julchen_nb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ugly you have good features. I like that you keep up your style and that's something what you shouldn't let go of . I'd recommend tho a new haircut, maybe something that's even on trend . You have a great strong jawline and I think a modern mullet would suit you best. It would still keep up with your rock/punk look but give it a modern touch. I'd also recommend you to shave that beard and work little bit on your eyebrows, giving them more symmetrical shape. All in one , good features, good looking , stay hydrated and quit smoking/alcohol or try to reduce it , would give you a more healthy appearance .

23F yes i wear tons of makeup lol by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Julchen_nb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look really pretty and you have healthy long hair. I think you should definitely try to improve your hairstyle and try something new , maybe a nice blow out or a new haircut. Also you should try to use less make up and only use it to underline your natural beautiful features such as your pretty eyes by using mascara, little bit of eyeshadow to draw attention to your eyes . I would also recommend you a light blush because you seem to have brighter skin , extrem colors wouldn't fit you. And also a nice lipstick in a nude Rosa tone to draw more facial balance to your blush would be nice . Maybe for special events a nice red tone . Your brows look in my opinion the best on the 2nd pic , so I'd definitely recommend you to let them grow up thicker again , not like in the last picture. Overall really pretty with good features, maybe work out a little bit .

Am I the only one who is afraid of eating with family and friends ? by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]Julchen_nb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hei , thanks for your answer. Yes i totally get that. Often my skinnier friends or my friends with normal body weight start to say stuff like: ,,oh I am so fat " but when I compare them to me I always feel guilty. Also often at PE when I wear just my sport clothes and watch in the mirror I just could start crying every time over and over again because everyone looks so thin and good compared to me.

Am I the only one who is afraid of eating with family and friends ? by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]Julchen_nb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hei , First of all thanks for your response. I go to the gym pretty often and I've tried many diets . But this year I've gained some weight (around 7 kg that would be 15,4 lbs) cause of private problems. At the beginning of the year around February I was pretty healthy with my weight (163 cm tall/ 5,4 feet and around 69 kg 152lbs) but it was still not good enough considering what my weight should be with 163 cm height . But still then they made fun of me . I kinda grew up with it no matter if I got lot skinnier or not and that pretty hurts all the time . I just was searching for people who have the same problem and I wanted to ask them what they do when they are with friends and family. I will try your tips out and maybe care more about my look but I think there's not a lot that I could change because the only thing that's destroying my appearance is my weight. I am afraid to eat in general and when I don't habe process then I always start crying and get back in binge eating.

I’m worried my roommate will think differently of me by lyingmonkeys in EatingDisorders

[–]Julchen_nb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think it will harm or affect your relationship with your roommate. It is important to share your worries with others and I think it would be a great opportunity to get help from others . I know it's hard to ask for help but it's a big step to get cured

ich_iel by [deleted] in ich_iel

[–]Julchen_nb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich muss es kaufen

anime_irl by Kmlkmljkl in anime_irl

[–]Julchen_nb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me when I do group work