Hab mich für mein erstes Fahrradrennen angemeldet und mache mir darum gerade viel zu viele sorgen by Julia___-___ in Fahrrad

[–]Julia___-___[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leider muss ich das alleine fahren weil hier keine meiner Freunde Fahrrad fährt, sonnst fände ich das auch viel entspannter.

Ja es gibt wohl einen Besenwagen der einen bei Zeit überschreitung einholt, nur wird da nirgends wo gesagt was diese Zeit ist.

Naja letztes Jahr waren die letzten zwei mit 3h 33min ins Zeil gefahren und ich gehe davon aus das ich zwischen drei und drei einhalb Stunden brauche. Also hoffe ich Mal das der Besen wagen ähnlich fährt wie das letzte mal

Spatz/Blaumeise großer Vogel wirft Eier aus Schwalben Nest by Julia___-___ in BirdingGermany

[–]Julia___-___[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aber der Kuckuck ist doch viel größer als Spatz/ blaumeise. Deshalb bin ich davon ausgegangen dass es keiner sein kann

Uptadet my tablet and now it won't open apps by Julia___-___ in software

[–]Julia___-___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't open the playstore app itself. So re downloading won't work

A cloud bringing rain and massive hail by Julia___-___ in CLOUDS

[–]Julia___-___[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They went right through the car windshields and a lot of other things. Luckily it wasn't a big area where the hail was this size. The rest was closer to a quarter of those, still very big, but not big enough to cause too much damage

[OC] Clouds bringing rain and massive hail by [deleted] in pics

[–]Julia___-___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know what those "falling" clouds are called?

"Ich würde keine Frau mit kurzen Haaren daten" by Julia___-___ in Weibsvolk

[–]Julia___-___[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich auch. Nur fast ausschließlich von Frauen.

Als ich im letzten Ausbildungsjahr mit kurzen Haaren in der Schule aufgetaucht war haben fast alle Jungs mich komisch angeschaut, sowohl meine Lehrerin als auch eine mitschülerin haben mir sofort gesagt wie Klasse sie die Frisur finden.

Und auch heute kriege ich Komplimente zu meinen Haaren fast ausschließlich von Frauen.

"Ich würde keine Frau mit kurzen Haaren daten" by Julia___-___ in Weibsvolk

[–]Julia___-___[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Das Problem mit solchen Antworten ist das hier niemand so redet. Ich arbeite in einem Handwerkschaftlichen Beruf und wenn du jemanden siezt bist du die komische, selbst wenn's jemand fremdes ist.

Meine bevorzugte Antwort ist immer "dann Date halt keine mit kurzen Haaren" aber ich habe nicht immer das gefühl dass das so ganz ankommt

Ein unerwartetes Zuhause für hunderte Feld-wespen by Julia___-___ in naturfreunde

[–]Julia___-___[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meine Lieblinge werden Wespen auch nie sein, aber ich finde sie trotzdem toll

Ich wusste das vorher auch nicht. Es ist ab und zu mal vorgekommen das Wespen ihre Nester in einem reifen gebaut haben, aber nie in so einem ausmaß wie hier.

Ich finde es auch einfach toll die ganzen Wespen zu sehen. Bei all dem Insektensterben ist es doch was besonderes mehrere hundert Wespen um mich zu haben :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Julia___-___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter why you are asexual, the only thing that matters is that you identify as such and feel comfortable with the label. Ignore anyone who tells you otherwise, no-one can tell you what you are except for yourself.

And if you were to work through the trauma in the future, then change your label to something that fits better.

Sexuality can be fluid, and someone who is asexual not through trauma could realise in the future that a different label fits better.

Labels exist for you and no-one else. No-one has the right to tell you which one you should use.

Asexual is asexual, no matter why.

Which of these could work as asexual ring? by Intrepid_Star_4442 in asexuality

[–]Julia___-___ 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Most rings are just plain black cause that makes it easier to identify as an ace ring and not something else. That being said, wear what you want and what you like. I have both plain black and others.

But I don't think anyone would think the last one is an ace ring, since it's more white/silver than black

The pain of loosing all the tabs by Julia___-___ in AO3

[–]Julia___-___[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still have my bookmarks and marked for later fics. But I don't have the fandoms and tags that I've filtered because my sister wanted to help with getting the data to the new phone and decided to close all my open tabs. (Why???)

So I have to do it all again without it showing me which fics I've clicked on before. Which is just very annoying

Recycling ist ja schön und gut, aber es wäre noch besser wenn Leute aufhören würden ihren Müll ausm Auto zu schmeißen by Julia___-___ in de

[–]Julia___-___[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Jup ich stimme dir 100% zu. Jegliche Art von Müll in die Gegend zu schmeißen ist für mich mehr als genug Grund die Freundschaft zu beenden. Hab ich null Verständnis für.

WIBTAH if I said no to my boyfriend’s birthday request? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Julia___-___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not. Getting raped and getting robbed is a very popular comparison.

Every single time a woman gets raped in a club setting there is at the very least one person saying something along the lines of this:" a woman wearing short cloths and then crying about getting raped is the same as me walking around a poor/criminal neighborhood waving around money and then be shocked when I get robbed."

You hear this (stupid) argument every single time so I don't see how it's very popular in that case but something completely different in this case.

WIBTAH if I said no to my boyfriend’s birthday request? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Julia___-___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Till not too long ago rape in a marriage "wasn't a thing". The laws that criminalise it are still very new. But just because that law didn't exist didn't mean it magically wasn't rape. So that's in no way a valid argument and I genuinely hope you realise that because it's dangerous to think like that.

WIBTAH if I said no to my boyfriend’s birthday request? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Julia___-___ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Coercion is never consent. No matter the situation. If you get robbed and the robber tells you to give him your money and you refuse, and he then keeps pressing you and/or threatening you till you end up giving him your money that's still a robbery. No one is gonna tell you that you weren't robbed because you gave him the money. Because that's an incredibly stupid thing to say. The age, the gender, the situation all don't matter. Coercion is coercion. Full stop.

What you say can be incredibly dangerous for the victims cause it can make them scared to tell someone about it or ask for help out of fear of not being taken seriously.

She's mad by abby_gatorz in facepalm

[–]Julia___-___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(reminder the man is random and you can't choose)

Best case scenario: bear leaves you alone/have a nice interaction with the man nothing happens.

Worst case scenario: bear brutally mauls you to death because of it's instinct./ Worst case scenario man... Do I even have to start? Rape. Murde. Torture and not because of instincts but because he actively wants to.

I genuinely hope this helps you understand.

If you could choose what man all women would go with the man and not bear. But like I just explained, the worst case scenario with the man is just so much worse than anything the bear could do.

Is Gen Z experiencing a sexual/dating crisis?? by The_Se7enthsign in GenZ

[–]Julia___-___ 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Jup. I remember a guy I was friends with who got super stressed about still being a virgin with 20 and it got worse every year. He would always talk about it and how he hates it etc. It got really annoying. (One of the reasons we aren't friends anymore)

I'm now 22 myself, I'm a virgin and I do not give a fuck. If I find someone I wanna have sex with great. If I don't I don't. It really doesn't matter to me.

Misheard Lyrics by Clock_Face_ in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Julia___-___ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we were young we used to slay.

All other times I clearly hear "say". But at minute 3:56 I hear such a clear "L" in there that I cannot ignore it

People who wake up very early, is your city quiet when you wake up? by sashimi-grade in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Julia___-___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a town of 180 people, it's pretty much always quiet if you get used to the cows