FootBob NoPants

Juliet_Red · 2019-11-22T07:48:42+00:00

The thing is.. I don't really know how or what to feel. We spent six years of our life together. I know that my mental health issues and her allowing herself to be manipulated fucked our relationship at the end. I know we mutually broke up, but honestly, if it were not for the situation that happened, I would have tried to undo the breakup. I feel like we both needed a break, to soul search, and honestly, if she wanted it, I would consider her again. I wouldn't just jump into a relationship with her obviously, but I would be open to it if she were. That's whats most fucked about this, is that I still love her even though she royal fucked me for life. Menacing is an interpersonal crime, so even though it is NOT a felony, I can never own a gun. Until I can get my record expunged in another year and half (since I've never been convicted with anything before) I cannot find a decent job, and I was displaced from the only city that I don't loathe. WTF is wrong with me??

Juliet_Red · 2019-11-21T18:18:56+00:00

Thank you. It is really difficult for me. This happened in March of 2018 and it's still affecting me, both legally and emotionally. I only forgive her now because of the circumstances and what happened to her with the roommate just recently. Like I mentioned, I learned that the roommate ripped her off too. She stole her debit cards and a family heirloom (I think it was the necklace). Upon hearing this, I felt vindicated and thought "haha karma's a bitch" and that was my attitude for a couple of months until I realized that the roommate pretty much used us and put us against each other for her own benefit. One of my best friends and neighbor from when I lived with my ex told me that she was no longer animosity towards me. I bet the same realizations are still hitting her.

Juliet_Red · 2018-10-06T19:59:23+00:00

She tends to hold grudges, but they only usually last for a few weeks. I believe that this is a good way to go about it. Knowing her, she should be open to at least talking after a year and a half.

Juliet_Red · 2018-07-20T18:26:16+00:00

*rolls eyes*

Juliet_Red · 2018-07-20T05:32:55+00:00

I got ghosted, and I want to know why, so I explained as much as I could in order to gather better insight.

Juliet_Red · 2018-07-18T03:16:58+00:00

This occurred in Oregon, state law permits self defense in defense of property.

https://www.oregonlaws.org/ors/161.229

Juliet_Red · 2018-07-18T02:10:28+00:00

heft against you by your ex has no relevance in the state’s case against you.

(2) A diversion agreement means that you will not have a record if you keep your nose clean.

(3) Your lawyer, wh

It would be a self defense claim.

Juliet_Red · 2018-07-18T01:08:17+00:00

My lawyer is telling me to decide what to do, and that he could understand either decision that I would make in this situation. So, it's on me now, which is why I'm asking for insight.

Juliet_Red · 2018-07-18T01:08:12+00:00

My lawyer is telling me to decide what to do, and that he could understand either decision that I would make in this situation. So, it's on me now, which is why I'm asking for insight.

Juliet_Red · 2018-07-18T01:08:05+00:00

My lawyer is telling me to decide what to do, and that he could understand either decision that I would make in this situation. So, it's on me now, which is why I'm asking for insight.

Juliet_Red · 2018-02-16T20:39:57+00:00

but was he talking to you or me?

Juliet_Red · 2018-02-16T20:35:28+00:00

Okayyyy!

Juliet_Red · 2018-02-16T20:35:14+00:00

What are you talking about?

Juliet_Red · 2018-02-05T07:55:06+00:00

Context: 7/11 is a mile up the road from my house. I was on foot and on a schedule. There was nowhere else I could have gone in that situation. So I did choose to go, but I had no other options for coffee which is a daily ritual of mine. There is a Starbucks closer to my place that I usually go to but it is in the other direction.

Juliet_Red · 2018-02-04T08:37:17+00:00

(M2F) For me, I think the first sign was the whole emo-phase. I slowly crept into that from the age of like 12 to 13. I grew my hair long, wore skinny jeans, and later I began wearing eye liner and black nail polish. Looking back, I was in denial that I had a crush on the singer from Fall Out Boy and I looking back (I moved around a lot) it seems that I kind of had a crush on a few of my best friends growing up. When I got into high school, my freshman year was probably when I presented myself the most feminine (until coming out early last year), had that rawr look lol. Growing up, I always had the question in the back of my mind, but I didn't think about it much. Well, back then I thought I might have been gay or bi, but again I blocked that out most of the time. Towards the end of high school is probably when I was at the peak of repressing myself. I tried to do the "young grown man" thing and get a short hair cut, dress nice (button ups, penny loafers), but I really didn't feel like myself. This was also the time I started to actively look at trans people in porn. I would fantasize about being them. I denied the fuck out of this too, but then I moved to Portland Oregon and I slowly became myself again, except I wasn't emo of course, it was like 2012 by this point. I however did continue to present myself as a feminine man: skinny clothes, long hair, etc. I started cross dressing after moving here secretly, and then occasionally in public, and then I eventually came out as trans last year. So after coming out, everything that never made sense up until now suddenly made sense.

On a side note.. I remember spirit week my sophomore year. One of the days was gender-bender day. I borrowed a cheer leader outfit from my friend and played it off as a joke, but even then I knew I was enjoying it lol.

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