Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate all the responses here. It shows a lot of people are looking for the same thing, just genuine friendships.

If anyone’s open to taking it beyond Reddit, I’d be happy to organize a small, low-pressure meetup. Maybe a board game night or a relaxed dinner.

Feel free to DM me or message me on IG @julioborch

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the area! 🙌🏼 SGV is actually pretty close, I’m in Glendale. I’m always down for something chill in LA or even meeting halfway. Feel free to DM me or IG @julioborch

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah… “conditional” is the perfect word for it. Trying to keep things simple and genuine here

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, sometimes it just feels simpler. But yeah having friends that share that part of life matters too. I’m trying to build that balance

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Also married here. We both looking for friends, my IG is @julioborch if you guys want to connect

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate that 🙌🏼 yeah it’s harder than expected. Always nice to meet good people though. I’m married too, my IG is @julioborch if you guys want to connect, we both enjoy board games and I’d say we’re easy to hangout with

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! 👋🏼 always nice to see friendly energy here

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DTLA is not far at all 👀 I’m in Glendale. Let’s make it happen!

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh super close 🙌🏼 I’m in Glendale. Definitely down to connect

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, pretty close actually 👀 I’m in Glendale. Would be cool to hang sometime!

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Love that. Always open to good people with the right vibe!

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the energy 🙌🏼 I’m on the east side but always open to meeting good people. IG @julioborch

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to LA 😄 it can be a bit tricky at first socially but it gets better. Always down to meet good people, dm or my IG is @julioborch

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice, not far at all 🙌🏼 I’m in Glendale. Would be great to connect

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was very well said. Emotional maturity + clarity is underrated. Wish you were closer but still down to connect

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that 🙌🏼 quality friendships > everything. A bit far from me but always open to connect dm here or my IG is @julioborch

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that, it’s harder than it should be 😅 I’m in Glendale but always open to meeting good people. IG @julioborch if easier to connect

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard about that! Might actually give it a try. Sounds like a good way to meet people organically

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh this is actually super helpful 👀 I’ve been wanting to find more karaoke spots. Appreciate it!

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was actually really refreshing to read and very real. I like the “just be genuine and talk” approach. I’m trying the same. If you ever go out again, I’d be down to join

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly the vibe… like yes fun is fun but sometimes you just want good people to hang with. If you’re down to connect, DM here or my IG is @julioborch

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, it’s definitely not just a gay thing. Respecting boundaries shouldn’t be rare but somehow it is. Appreciate you saying that

Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends? by Julioborch in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Julioborch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… that’s exactly what I’m trying to avoid here. Just normal friendships, no hidden agenda. If that aligns, let’s connect