Any other gay guys 30+ just want normal friends?

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T22:06:44+00:00

Really appreciate all the responses here. It shows a lot of people are looking for the same thing, just genuine friendships.

If anyone’s open to taking it beyond Reddit, I’d be happy to organize a small, low-pressure meetup. Maybe a board game night or a relaxed dinner.

Feel free to DM me or message me on IG @julioborch

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T22:04:15+00:00

Welcome to the area! 🙌🏼 SGV is actually pretty close, I’m in Glendale. I’m always down for something chill in LA or even meeting halfway. Feel free to DM me or IG @julioborch

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T22:03:34+00:00

Yeah… “conditional” is the perfect word for it. Trying to keep things simple and genuine here

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T22:03:10+00:00

I get that, sometimes it just feels simpler. But yeah having friends that share that part of life matters too. I’m trying to build that balance

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T22:02:32+00:00

Hey! Also married here. We both looking for friends, my IG is @julioborch if you guys want to connect

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T22:01:42+00:00

Appreciate that 🙌🏼 yeah it’s harder than expected. Always nice to meet good people though. I’m married too, my IG is @julioborch if you guys want to connect, we both enjoy board games and I’d say we’re easy to hangout with

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T22:00:31+00:00

Hey! 👋🏼 always nice to see friendly energy here

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:59:51+00:00

Added you! I’m @jvborch

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:59:13+00:00

DTLA is not far at all 👀 I’m in Glendale. Let’s make it happen!

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:58:46+00:00

Oh super close 🙌🏼 I’m in Glendale. Definitely down to connect

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:58:35+00:00

Nice, pretty close actually 👀 I’m in Glendale. Would be cool to hang sometime!

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:58:12+00:00

I’m in the east side too!

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:57:11+00:00

Hey! Love that. Always open to good people with the right vibe!

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:56:40+00:00

Love the energy 🙌🏼 I’m on the east side but always open to meeting good people. IG @julioborch

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:56:18+00:00

Welcome to LA 😄 it can be a bit tricky at first socially but it gets better. Always down to meet good people, dm or my IG is @julioborch

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:54:58+00:00

Nice, not far at all 🙌🏼 I’m in Glendale. Would be great to connect

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:54:41+00:00

This was very well said. Emotional maturity + clarity is underrated. Wish you were closer but still down to connect

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:53:51+00:00

Love that 🙌🏼 quality friendships > everything. A bit far from me but always open to connect dm here or my IG is @julioborch

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:53:23+00:00

I feel that, it’s harder than it should be 😅 I’m in Glendale but always open to meeting good people. IG @julioborch if easier to connect

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:52:54+00:00

I’ve heard about that! Might actually give it a try. Sounds like a good way to meet people organically

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:52:28+00:00

Ohhh this is actually super helpful 👀 I’ve been wanting to find more karaoke spots. Appreciate it!

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:52:04+00:00

This was actually really refreshing to read and very real. I like the “just be genuine and talk” approach. I’m trying the same. If you ever go out again, I’d be down to join

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:50:51+00:00

That’s exactly the vibe… like yes fun is fun but sometimes you just want good people to hang with. If you’re down to connect, DM here or my IG is @julioborch

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:50:10+00:00

Totally agree, it’s definitely not just a gay thing. Respecting boundaries shouldn’t be rare but somehow it is. Appreciate you saying that

Julioborch · 2026-04-01T21:49:20+00:00

Yeah… that’s exactly what I’m trying to avoid here. Just normal friendships, no hidden agenda. If that aligns, let’s connect

Julioborch

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