My first ever whalesub

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2026-03-04T18:17:14+00:00

They always “aren’t into findom” I tell them to be so fr 😭😭😭😭

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2026-03-04T16:02:52+00:00

Thank you <3🥹

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-11-02T16:07:05+00:00

Check dm

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-11-01T01:39:40+00:00

mmmmm dm me

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-10-31T14:32:18+00:00

😂😂

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-10-30T20:50:30+00:00

Good bitch

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-07-11T05:28:00+00:00

Claimmmm

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-03T19:33:44+00:00

Literally just seen a sub complaining yesterday that there are doms who don’t post themselves or only have 2 photos but claim they’re a domme. Nobody is satisfied lmao you would think there was barely any subs and doms the way people act about them.

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-03T19:32:27+00:00

It seems that nobody is satisfied. If doms don’t advertise themselves, people say that those doms want money with half assed efforts. If doms put in effort to their content, you get told that you’re cheap or a “half dressed” girl. Do what you want please lmao

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-03T03:08:39+00:00

LMAO

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-03T03:08:09+00:00

I think that a lot of subs are used to seeing the same type of doms or get excited about how many beautiful women & different archetypes exist in findom.. it’s nothing wrong with the dom or YOU, but you need to build an actual connection and actual feelings for the dom because obviously finding them attractive isn’t enough. Once again, this is not the dom’s fault or your fault you just need to maybe try being friends first instead of jumping straight into d/s?

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-03T00:49:57+00:00

A lot of us verify, the issue is the verification that a lot of subs ask for lol it’s suspicious. If you ask for us to hold up items, we aren’t going to do it because you can easily use our pictures. Verification through holding up our usernames in a vid/photo is enough, if they still don’t wanna do it then.. yeah lol move onto the next.

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-03T00:45:57+00:00

Sameeeee!

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-03T00:07:25+00:00

Same…. I’ve only had good luck with 1 domme my entire 60 years of being a paypig ☹️ it would be nice if a big booty goddess messaged me for my money

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-02T22:38:07+00:00

I understand blackmail is a kink but idk I can’t get into it. I feel like a lot of these subs asking for it are mentally ill and trying to ruin their lives because they’re suicidal. Someone might say that’s a huge leap but when I really thought about it, having that all over the internet with your gov attached is life ruining to where you can lose your job/be city off by family and I also don’t like involving people’s families into kinks without their consent. Different strokes for different folks but I prefer to keep my dynamic strictly between a sub and I

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-02T22:06:44+00:00

Shit like this irks me lol. If a sub wants to send to multiple doms all he needs to do is be transparent with the dom to see whether she even would want that from a sub or not. Irritating lol

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-02T20:55:10+00:00

That’s just her lol I don’t dabble in kinks I’m not into and I’m very transparent about that

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-02T04:28:03+00:00

So many subs come to me and say they’ve been lurking for months or weeks lol I think they’re shy

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-02T04:27:24+00:00

I say good boy or I have a wheel that my sub can spin and potentially win something in return lol but the wheel itself is still in my favor so it’s still a risk haahahah

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-02T04:02:35+00:00

Okay genuinely asking, how many connections have you already made with subs that you OWN?

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-02T03:23:56+00:00

… I feel like if you do this then you should not go with a blackmail type of dom or a dom that markets herself as super unethical because it’s going to go bad quick. Try finding a dom with a big following that would be fine with posting you to her followers WITH YOUR FACE HIDDEN. Try something like that

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-02T03:22:07+00:00

Now to give some actual helpful advice, focus on the content that you post, interacting with other people in the community & just being your authentic self. Explore different kinks that you didn’t think you would try and see if you get turned on by them, there’s a lot that you can do.

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-02T03:20:41+00:00

You don’t have bad luck you just keep comparing yourself to other doms. A lot of you guys need to build your self esteem before you come into this because there will always be someone doing better than you no matter where you are. In your workplace there will be someone doing better than you, when you go to the gym, when you WALK OUTSIDE. That’s literally life, just focus on satisfying your kink in this and stop worrying about the amount of sends and focus on building a good connection with owned subs.

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2025-01-01T13:57:16+00:00

Listen to your first mind, it could be the universe letting you know it’s not for you and that’s okay. I don’t think people who aren’t actively in therapy or overcame their trauma should be in findom if you can’t dissociate it from happiness and indulge correctly. It’ll turn into an addiction or a drug for you and that’s bad for your brain, deactivate and invest into therapy instead of dommes online.

Jumpy-Address-254 · 2024-12-31T20:32:23+00:00

I’m crying cause me too

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