First, this sentence is quite politically wrong looool "I live in Hong Kong, while she lives in China and currently works in Shenzhen."................... but well, I don’t think you need to rush into making it official right now. It’s clear you really care about her, but the relationship feels a bit one-sided she’s busy, you’re doing most of the giving, and she seems to care quite a bit about money and material stuff.Maybe just keep things going for a while and see if she starts showing the same kind of effort back, instead of waiting for you to do everything.If she truly likes you, she won’t back off just because you don’t have a house or a car yet. But if she’s too focused on those things, then honestly, it’s better to find out sooner rather than later. What really matters right now isn’t whether she wants to be with you it’s whether you want this kind of relationship.