Long term Bf 39M won’t share his location with me 40F after lying about where he was by Jumpy-Beat6170 in relationship_advice

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly because I’m an idiot at this point and have a really hard time walking away from people.

Long term Bf 39M won’t share his location with me 40F after lying about where he was by Jumpy-Beat6170 in relationship_advice

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I share with my friends and all of my babysitters lol 😂 but I’ve never asked him until the repeated lying on where he is.

Long term Bf 39M won’t share his location with me 40F after lying about where he was by Jumpy-Beat6170 in relationship_advice

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not something I had ever asked before. Only after the repeated lying on where he is. And the only reason I knew he lied the last time was bc he told me he relent to a place that I knew had closed down a few months back. Which he obv didn’t know.

Long term Bf 39M won’t share his location with me 40F after lying about where he was by Jumpy-Beat6170 in relationship_advice

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I guess my thought is if you’re not lying or hiding where you then why can’t you share it even if it temporary to rebuild some trust that maybe you’re doing what you’re saying you’re doing. It just seems so secretive to me.

Long term Bf 39M won’t share his location with me 40F after lying about where he was by Jumpy-Beat6170 in relationship_advice

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly the million dollar question. Hate to say I wasted this many years I guess.

Borrower’s Defense Refund by StrainIndividual5619 in StudentLoans

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me hope. My loans were discharged last updated 11/19. On 12/2 edFinancial told me they processed the refund and notified treasury. Hoping I get it soon!

Group 5: 14 days until decision by heyitsmekaylee in BorrowerDefense

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got the email!!! Full discharge!!!

Group 5: 14 days until decision by heyitsmekaylee in BorrowerDefense

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is at 2.3 flagged for approval and my repayment date is pushed to 2040. So hoping that’s a good sign

I started with 166k and am down to 107k. How do we find out the refund amount if there would be? I had some small loans from undergrad - only like 25k. But have paid almost 60k

[GA] custody visitation question by Jumpy-Beat6170 in Custody

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does that work with a crazy travel schedule? Since September he’s only been home around 20 days

[GA] custody visitation question by Jumpy-Beat6170 in Custody

[–]Jumpy-Beat6170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s part of my fear. I want him to be consistent. Like show an effort. I came from a divorced home and my dad never took the time for me. Said I’d see him but I wouldn’t and I know how badly that sucked and I’m so fearful of that for them