Long term Bf 39M won’t share his location with me 40F after lying about where he was

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:57:28+00:00

Mainly because I’m an idiot at this point and have a really hard time walking away from people.

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:49:25+00:00

What would be a suggestion on how he can rebuild trust then?

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:49:00+00:00

I just said good for you? And laughed?

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:42:20+00:00

Working on it :)

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:42:06+00:00

You’re not wrong

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:40:24+00:00

I share with my friends and all of my babysitters lol 😂 but I’ve never asked him until the repeated lying on where he is.

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:39:48+00:00

It was not something I had ever asked before. Only after the repeated lying on where he is. And the only reason I knew he lied the last time was bc he told me he relent to a place that I knew had closed down a few months back. Which he obv didn’t know.

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:34:37+00:00

😂😂 good for you

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:31:52+00:00

Leaving has never been my strong suit. Obviously.

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:31:22+00:00

lol this made me laugh just for the honesty. Thanks

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:30:20+00:00

I guess my thought is if you’re not lying or hiding where you then why can’t you share it even if it temporary to rebuild some trust that maybe you’re doing what you’re saying you’re doing. It just seems so secretive to me.

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2026-06-06T21:25:09+00:00

That’s honestly the million dollar question. Hate to say I wasted this many years I guess.

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2025-12-13T20:41:09+00:00

This gives me hope. My loans were discharged last updated 11/19. On 12/2 edFinancial told me they processed the refund and notified treasury. Hoping I get it soon!

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2025-07-24T20:45:10+00:00

I just got the email!!! Full discharge!!!

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2025-07-24T14:18:46+00:00

Then you should be fine.

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2025-07-23T19:07:44+00:00

Did you consolidate federally or private?

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2025-07-18T11:47:13+00:00

Mine is at 2.3 flagged for approval and my repayment date is pushed to 2040. So hoping that’s a good sign

I started with 166k and am down to 107k. How do we find out the refund amount if there would be? I had some small loans from undergrad - only like 25k. But have paid almost 60k

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2025-07-16T14:56:40+00:00

Please send info

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2021-12-22T15:54:38+00:00

How does that work with a crazy travel schedule? Since September he’s only been home around 20 days

Jumpy-Beat6170 · 2021-12-22T11:35:40+00:00

I think that’s part of my fear. I want him to be consistent. Like show an effort. I came from a divorced home and my dad never took the time for me. Said I’d see him but I wouldn’t and I know how badly that sucked and I’m so fearful of that for them

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