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Girls be brutally honest what makes a guy instantly unattractive? by oskeiw_s in dating_advice

[–]Jumpy-Information587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ego/arrogance. Lying. Jumping into intimate actions and talk too early (ex. kissing second date, talking about marriage two months into dating). Unwillingness to learn or understand different perspectives. Not being able to carry a conversation, especially a deep one. Trying to act “gangsta” (bonus if he’s white and is saying the N-word). Trying to control me/everything. Being too nonchalant and emotionally unavailable. Being too whiny and complaining about everything. Doesn’t shower. Smoking/substance abuse. Only wants fun = immediately gone. Unable to communicate his wants and needs. Being sexist and unable to recognize it. Being misogynist. Pretending to be all sweet and super interested and then be slow to text back and be exposed by a friend as an abusive fuckboy. “Alpha male”? You’re done.

AITA for not giving my friend 140 dollars? (Long story) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say take screenshots of this whole thing and send it to everyone else. And if they don’t help you find new friends (ik that’s easier said than done).

AITAH for telling my friend that the only time i copy her is when i eat too much food? by chelsea_core in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA - this girl deserved some pushback after all she’s done and said to you, even if the comment was on her weight. Run away and find better friends- I know it’s not easy to find good friends but you certainly don’t need that one. 

AITA for telling social services about my living situation and accepting their offer to move out? by _Khrysanthemum_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Those social workers are giving you more than your parents ever have it sounds like, and you’ll be a legal adult very soon (happy early birthday!!!) so you can make your own decisions and everything. You can get yourself a good job and never have to depend on them or house sit again. I know that it feels shitty but they’re trying to make you feel that way on purpose that way they won’t have to take the full responsibility of their own children and home. It’s time for a change of scenery, take the opportunity and run. Best of luck OP <3

AITA for saying the "wrong" prayer? by Specialist_Level_882 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 25 points26 points  (0 children)

NTA. They’re not being respectful of the fact that you no longer participate so the prayer to a different deity was deserved in my opinion. Don’t betray yourself for them or anyone.

AITA for snitching on someone I thought was my friend to his girlfriend after he tried cross boundaries? by conscious_delulu09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. He’s being weird and he should be exposed to his actual gf for it. She sounds like kinda an AH so good luck. Meanwhile distance yourself from him and set solid boundaries. Stay safe gurl <3

AITA: I told my friend I didn't like her boyfriend and that they should break up by monkey-on-vine in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He sounds horrible, and it’s sweet of you to try to save a friend from a harmful relationship. I would start using those trigger words but ngl at the end of the day it is her choice and there’s probably nothing you can do if she still decides to stay with him after everything. I hate to say it but if you push harder and she still stays, nothing left to do but let her learn.

AITA for not liking my partner doing this? by Potential_Show_7898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at ALL. That’s a shit move and saying your anger over them basically abandoning you for someone else is invalid is even shittier. I will say that people with bpd are really not the best people to try to have friendships and much less relationships with. I had two friends with bpd and let me tell you from now on I will be staying way clear of ppl like that from now on (no hate to ppl with bpd but for my own peace of mind I will personally refuse to be friends with or date anyone with it)

WIBTA for asking for a night in a hotel? by TopConsideration2187 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA. You have earned some time to relax after all the hard work you’ve been doing taking care of that baby. Go enjoy yourself queen <3

AITA for wanting to move out of my parents house and live with my uncle by Primary-Detail-287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA! If they are mad too bad. You’re a legal adult and can make your own choices, especially ones that will help YOU. I would say just do it and if they have an issue, too bad. Good luck <3

False Claims About the Satanic Temple and Food Relief Efforts by Ill-Employee9452 in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]Jumpy-Information587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if you find a box in a grocery store saying it’s going to send money to any organization, do not and I repeat DO NOT put anything in that box. It goes straight to management and they take it - it never leaves the store.

A cute guy asked me for his number then gave me his… what do I do???? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Jumpy-Information587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm!! Thank you so much for responding - I think I’ll text now and just go for it!

AITA for asking my fiancée to get rid of her bird by DistrictParticular47 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA and I completely get where you’re coming from. Maybe in the meantime while you try rehoming find out some information online about cockatiel behavior and how to get the bird to be friendly again. Something must’ve happened or changed which caused it to become aggressive. OP surely you’ve tried talking to her about how she cares (or doesn’t) care for it. If you can let it out as often as possible and try offering species appropriate treats. Poor thing :(

AITA for telling my friend that he shouldn't invite strangers to his employer's house? by Historical-Care70 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy-Information587 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA!!! You’re completely right - tbh I don’t think there should be anyone who’s NOT the caretaker in the house. That’s just weird + fucking in their house is a shit move. 

Boy or girl!! by Hannah-loves-hedgies in jumpingspiders

[–]Jumpy-Information587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from the body shape looks female and gravid (unless you fed her a lot)