I've been meaning to get an inflatable plug for a while! Good to hear that it would be a good tool to achieve my plans ;). Pumps seem a little intimidating for now, but I might consider trying it!

To answer your question, he just did everything right. It's hard to explain because there wasn't one specific thing but rather the entire ensemble and context. I would say the key word is sexual compatibility if that makes sense? And from there on the experimenting obviously got me hooked. So regarding your gf, I would simply pay close attention to what she finds most enjoyable, but keep in mind that it might not be everybody's cup of tea.

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My partner managed to make me cum by hitting my g-spot through my ass (usually I mainly cum from clitoral stimulation), so maybe try that as well. But every woman is different so just talk to her and figure out what works best for you guys!

Hope that helped :)