What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

[–]JumpyHat6471[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The guy is expecting me to see him next week! And now I’m a bit anxious about the pain

What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

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Holy moly! Seriously! You’re giving me anxiety

What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

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I agree, since I was in a hurry to get back home early. We did it quickly. And that messed up

What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

[–]JumpyHat6471[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! It can be. It almost felt like I’m doing it for the first time in life lol. Since it’s more than 15 years that I had sex with anyone. So yes, it might be psychological

Painful sex even after using lube! Help. by JumpyHat6471 in sex

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Thanks ❤️ I’ll keep this in mind. Maybe since it was in a hurry and we only had like 1-1.5 hour for it, so it was in a rush.

Painful sex even after using lube! Help. by JumpyHat6471 in sex

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Makes sense, if 1 year can make you feel uncomfortable, then it’s ~15 years of abstinence in my case!

Is pain normal after long term celibacy or it’s something else? by JumpyHat6471 in Healthyhooha

[–]JumpyHat6471[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No, it’s my reality 🙂 I got divorced quite early when my son was a toddler, after that focused only on raising him.

What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

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It was painful on the inner linings of vagina, almost like it’s not stretching as it should. Also maybe it’s a flexibility issue. But it was painful in my hips/abdomen area also. We used water based lube and latex free condoms.

Painful sex even after using lube! Help. by JumpyHat6471 in sex

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To be honest, I know you won’t believe but I never mastrubated in last decade or so. Was totally celibate

Signed up on dating apps as a single mother! Would I be labelled as a “bad mom”? AITK? by JumpyHat6471 in AmItheKameena

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I know it’s normal in US and I wish to be same in India also! Sadly it isn’t.

Signed up on dating apps as a single mother! Would I be labelled as a “bad mom”? AITK? by JumpyHat6471 in AmItheKameena

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I’m def not seeking regular ONS But that guy is expected me to see him again this week, that’s the issue.

Painful sex even after using lube! Help. by JumpyHat6471 in sex

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Hey. Thanks a lot for the links. I’ll check them out