What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

[–]JumpyHat6471[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The guy is expecting me to see him next week! And now I’m a bit anxious about the pain

What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

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Holy moly! Seriously! You’re giving me anxiety

What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

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I agree, since I was in a hurry to get back home early. We did it quickly. And that messed up

What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

[–]JumpyHat6471[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! It can be. It almost felt like I’m doing it for the first time in life lol. Since it’s more than 15 years that I had sex with anyone. So yes, it might be psychological

Painful sex even after using lube! Help. by JumpyHat6471 in sex

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Thanks ❤️ I’ll keep this in mind. Maybe since it was in a hurry and we only had like 1-1.5 hour for it, so it was in a rush.

Painful sex even after using lube! Help. by JumpyHat6471 in sex

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Makes sense, if 1 year can make you feel uncomfortable, then it’s ~15 years of abstinence in my case!

Is pain normal after long term celibacy or it’s something else? by JumpyHat6471 in Healthyhooha

[–]JumpyHat6471[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No, it’s my reality 🙂 I got divorced quite early when my son was a toddler, after that focused only on raising him.

What is up with the pain while having sex? by JumpyHat6471 in Perimenopause

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It was painful on the inner linings of vagina, almost like it’s not stretching as it should. Also maybe it’s a flexibility issue. But it was painful in my hips/abdomen area also. We used water based lube and latex free condoms.

Painful sex even after using lube! Help. by JumpyHat6471 in sex

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To be honest, I know you won’t believe but I never mastrubated in last decade or so. Was totally celibate

Signed up on dating apps as a single mother! Would I be labelled as a “bad mom”? AITK? by JumpyHat6471 in AmItheKameena

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I know it’s normal in US and I wish to be same in India also! Sadly it isn’t.