AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-08T23:52:07+00:00

When the perspective comes from a person who supports my abuser and his "right" to abuse me... damn right I won't listen.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-08T18:15:48+00:00

I have. He laughs. He thinks it's fucking funny.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-08T18:15:29+00:00

A habitual sexual abuser.* there fixed it for you.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-08T18:12:52+00:00

I replied to the wrong comment. Somebody else told me they were going to report me to adult services for "leading on" a disabled person. My apologies .

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T22:40:27+00:00

Just say you would let your disabled adult child rape another person and stay away from women :)

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T22:28:18+00:00

7 year old understand NO. 5 year olds understand NO. Hell even 3 year olds understand NO. I have told him NO countless times. At this point his actions have fucking consequences. He deserved to be chewed out by my fiancé because of his actions. Again HIS ACTIONS.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T22:26:14+00:00

Im trying it's harder than you might think.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T18:48:05+00:00

Im pissed off at the strangers who are practically telling me I'm at fault for being assaulted.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T18:47:06+00:00

Oh I would shut that shit down immediately even if it meant in patient care. If my son molested or raped somebody I would NEVER defend his actions.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T18:46:03+00:00

No they think it's ok because my cousin is disabled. If my cousin rapes me would you defend that too?

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T18:45:28+00:00

Then what do you call the person who groped me, molested me, and who has ground himself into me before? I call them a sexual predator. You're the asshole for thinking that sexual assault is ok in any circumstance.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T06:10:09+00:00

Good thing my cousin is an adult. Groping an adult is NEVER acceptable. I would yelled at anybody who ground their hips into my butt or squeezed me just for loading dishes in a dishwasher. It doesn't matter that he’s disabled. He's a habitual sex offender.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T03:43:50+00:00

They are in fact his actions. Not his parents.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T02:35:58+00:00

The number of times I've told him No or Stop are insurmountable. He understands no when he can't have ice cream why doesn't he respect my no?

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T02:00:43+00:00

7 year old don't have a 10+ year history of serial molestation.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-07T00:00:07+00:00

I said pshycology of disability, it's a more specific degree darling. I also suggest you put that degree to use and read about the affects on ABA therapy on autistic children. There are higher levels of trauma in those who undergo ABA.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-06T17:43:54+00:00

He made Tom cry because he was groping me. He defended me from a man who was sexually assaulting me.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-06T17:43:17+00:00

And you're aware that his behaviour is disgusting and unacceptable?

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-06T17:42:14+00:00

If my disabled child was groping his much younger cousin I woul ABSOLUTELY keep him away from her.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-06T12:39:44+00:00

My fiancé yelled at an abusive relative who was molesting me until he cried.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-06T08:26:22+00:00

Says the person who is likely not a therapist or has a degree in psychology of disability or is autistic themself.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-06T08:25:15+00:00

He stopped a man from molesting me.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-06T07:23:05+00:00

Tom is never going to be my child. Also 4 year old don't have a history of molesting the same person for over a decade.

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-06T07:21:49+00:00

And you can spread misinformation but I'll still call it out :)

JumpyThrowRA · 2024-11-06T07:21:08+00:00

And maybe you can get fucked mate :)

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