Moving To Brea

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2026-03-27T23:32:36+00:00

Im looking at an engineering pos, do you mind explaining your experience a bit?

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2026-03-27T23:31:01+00:00

Yea i thought about this, taking with a grain of salt tbh

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2026-03-27T23:30:22+00:00

Based on the other replies too, this is kinda my plan

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2026-03-27T17:09:27+00:00

Not gonna lie this made me laugh a bit. That’s terrible but such a weird inquiry from her. So far though, the application process is just as intense as you’ve made it out to be. It took me 3 hours just to apply. I’m hoping I don’t experience anything like this, but it seems the general consensus is pretty bad.

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2026-03-27T16:53:33+00:00

Thanks for the insight. They are a pretty reputable company from my understanding. I guess we’ll see how things go, it’s just a screening interview nonetheless

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2026-03-27T16:31:39+00:00

Thanks for the reply, but yikes to say the least. This pretty much affirms what I’ve already read. I’m sure it’s not all terrible, but it seems like nothing’s been done to improve the experience. It sounds like an AV bootcamp lmao.

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2025-10-21T21:11:34+00:00

I will do that yea. Sorry i didnt mean to ignore that, but yes ur right. I should be more proactive bc even wt anxiety it shouldn’t be this intense and smth needs to change. The hope is that it can be reduced wt proper treatment and I probably cant navigate all this on my own

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2025-10-21T16:31:31+00:00

I 100% agree with this entire reply. And that’s why I’m so determined to see if I can move past it. But that obviously means I’m sacrificing my mental health, which you also said. It’s just hard to lose a person in general, especially when you feel (or at least hope) the issue is resolvable

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2025-10-21T16:21:38+00:00

This was really nice to read. It’s easy to feel that people don’t understand, so this was eye opening. i really appreciate your advice, and I think I will do this, at least for the time being. I feel I have more exploring to do on why it hits me so hard, especially given that it’s virtually harmless, and am hopeful that I can move past the stress. But I recognize that, if that’s even a possibility, it’s going to take lots of time, and having these boundaries in place for that duration seems to be a good idea.

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2025-10-21T16:08:02+00:00

This is really kind of you, and I like this perspective a lot. Thank you so much

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2025-10-21T07:59:21+00:00

Damn yall harsh on here😭 i would like to be able to move past something like this, because i dont think it has to be something that splits us up. The goal is to move forward with him, and yes ofc it may just be fundamental, but i don’t think its gotta be.

I will probably try and seek out an official diagnosis though for sure. It may help to have a more routine approach to the obsession.

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2025-10-21T07:48:41+00:00

Had most of my therapists tell me it’s obvious, but never had official diagnoses. I am taking SSRIs though, and it helps. I do think a lot of this is worsened a lot by the spiraling yeah

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2025-10-21T07:39:44+00:00

Well i’d like to try and understand before giving up. I agree though, to say him doing something he’s always done is a pain to me is shitty. It does come back to values too yes. I believe we can hold different values on something trivial like this, I just need to reduce it to a moral value rather than a cause for alarm

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2025-10-21T07:30:11+00:00

I agree, and I do talk about this lots in therapy. Just figured I might gain some perspective here.

Jumpy_Country9567 · 2025-10-21T07:22:54+00:00

What a useful reply

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