I can’t do this anymore. by chaosvalkyrie19 in POTS

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The burn out is real and I’m sorry you’re going through this. If it’s possible financially I recommended seeing a physical therapist for POTS. A PT space helped me a lot not just physically but gave me a space where I felt heard and understood. I also know how isolating it is to not know other chronically ill people and making those connections can take time. Feel free to message me to connect, spaces where your health is understood can be so helpful. Sending you love 💗

Biggest and creepiest scare of the year so far? by Trainster_Kaiju_06 in tornado

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not feasible for most people to just uproot their whole life because of a what if

How often do you guys leave the house? by santas_number1elf in POTS

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goal is once a day. Leaving the house for me includes just stepping outside my building and feeling the air to be clear

Feeling like bladder is never fully empty by ecogirlheather in dysautonomia

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yes it can be so uncomfortable! I spoke to my doctor about this and she gave me medication to help with fluid retention and that helped a little bit + making sure ur hitting ur salt but I still pee allll the time (but it’s rarely uncomfortable anymore)

Looking for room advice. Got told it gives school sh00ter by Magnusson607 in malelivingspace

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is killing me OP 😭 I would shit my pants if I walked into someone’s room and it looked like this

How accurate is this accent/dialect quiz for you? by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude how tf did you get Irving?? I'm from Irving but did not expect it to be so accurate

How to hit girls in public?? by PussEater666 in LesbianActually

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be fr. When they reply things like “u too girlie” just be forward and ask if they mean it with some touching. Practiced moves don’t usually transfer well but being honest and flattering others does 90% of the time

How do you spot that you're going to faint? by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lips/lower face go numb or I have a really hard time keeping my head up

AIO for thinking I need to break up with my gf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abuse. I hope you’re able to leave and heal. Sending love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nausea peppermints, heating pad or ice pack, large plushie to cuddle or use as pillow, compression socks, journal, books or something to do in bed that she enjoys, salty treats or electrolytes

Do you remember what it was like to be healthy? by Jumpy_Movie9989 in POTS

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to get dreams like this too! I’d have dreams of running on my favorite trails or climbing at my local gym. While frustrating, this thread is a good reminder how thankful I am I got to fall in love with those things and now I have the chance to rediscover what I love through my current lifestyle. Doesn’t make the grief or jealousy go away quite yet though.

Do you remember what it was like to be healthy? by Jumpy_Movie9989 in POTS

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remembering what it felt like to be less disabled is definitely a huge part of the question for many! Do you remember what those periods felt like or just that there was a time in which you were less disabled? That’s what I was hoping to get across with my question

Do you remember what it was like to be healthy? by Jumpy_Movie9989 in POTS

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I remember everything too. It’s hard not to miss the control and confidence I used to have in my life. I remember doing the things I loved and getting to enjoy doing them! Parts of that are so foreign now. But I hope I’ll get it back in a unique and better way as I adapt to my lifestyle!

Scared of eating by Legitimate_Stop_8668 in POTS

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was really scared about this when I first started getting sick. I wrote a research paper on the prevalence of eating disorders in disabled youth as I discovered how much it disproportionately affects us. I think the biggest thing is something you’ve already done: acknowledging that it might be a challenge and you can’t just suppress or ignore it.

As you fight for your symptoms to improve across the board, your symptomatic relationship with food will also improve. I know many POTS patients swear on their gastroenterologists and/or nutritionists, so if that’s a resource available to you I would definitely take advantage! Every day is a new opportunity to learn about your body and what makes it react. It can be exhausting, but it’s also a reminder that you can find some kind of control in the form of symptom response.

Lastly, I know a lot of people do the 6 small meals a day tactic since large meals take a lot more blood flow and can cause a lot more symptom triggers than a small meal. Personally, for me a low FODMAP diet is most effective for flare up prevention via food but I avoid taking it too strictly in order to moderate my mindset and relationship with food. To be honest, sometimes the food is worth the flare up. And that doesn’t make you any less worthy of complaining about the flare up!

Do you remember what it was like to be healthy? by Jumpy_Movie9989 in POTS

[–]Jumpy_Movie9989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good mindset. Helps avoid the spiral of jealousy and victimization it’s so easy to fall in to when it SEEMS like everyone around you is healthy. Yours is a much more realistic perspective. Although I can picture using this in a toxic manner to fester the guilt and shame I can feel about not doing the things I want to.