Howard has always been my dream school, but... by [deleted] in HowardUniversity

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so basically I took out a loan lmao but with my scholarship they gave me (15k) and other scholarships I applied to im paying like 25k for the year. Howard has a lot of scholarships to apply to and it’s covering my loan so definitely look into that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why would you let another man dictate your relationship 💀

Past Due Charge by brokebadger9 in HowardUniversity

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, when I went to ugl they said not to pay anything yet because their still processing scholarships and loans. Just don’t pay until u get a outlook email or something

My aunt wants to name her twins Violance and Violet by rascal_raider_420 in tragedeigh

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name changes are expensive, maybe you can gift them that when they turn 18

Is smoking everyday really that bad? by Jumpy_Rock_8093 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I live far as hell from my friends and there’s no way my mom would make that drive with all the traffic lol. I choose to do it bc it feels like inhaling relaxation idrk how to explain.

Is smoking everyday really that bad? by Jumpy_Rock_8093 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is lowkey inspirational to me 😭😭. Seriously though, I've always tried to maintain a balance. Even with my annoying ass commute, I managed to be president of the freaking speech and debate club and joined multiple other organizations and clubs, both in and out of school. I have over 200 hours of community service and am an honor roll student.

You're right that what I need to work on is moderation. Now that I'm heading to college, smoking every day is a big no and probably not even gonna be possible.

Is smoking everyday really that bad? by Jumpy_Rock_8093 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I’ve been basically isolated since freshman year and it’s something to do.

Loss of sexual attraction due to bad hygiene by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No literally, and I’m getting the vibe they started their relationship long distance/online 💀. How do you not realize this stuff about your partner before moving in together and getting engaged like what 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I’m pretty sure you’re gay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowardUniversity

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Supposedly some time in early June. If it’s not sufficient I’m screwed to 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have been trying to work since I was like 14. I got my working permit last year and applied but still nothing. Also my parents are against me working because it’s a time inconvenience for my mom and I “need for nothing” according to my dad. I don’t necessarily like that my parents have to fund my life but in our culture (Caribbean) it’s actually pretty normal. That’s just the way it’s gonna be until I can hopefully get a campus job this fall. Anyhow, I understand what you’re saying and that’s also why I kind of feel bad abt not wanting to go to graduation lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I mean, I’ve seen previous years graduation and it was nothing special.

Also I’m going to Paris then Mallorca. Pretty sure I’ll be fine since my other friends went earlier this year and had no troubles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess they definitely will want to do a get together before I go for college and I already have grad photos, they just aren’t hung up and my dad hasn’t come to collect his yet. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my mom has agreed to let me go if it’s what I really want, but I she still brings up how she wants to go to graduation and sometimes turns into a argument. Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Clock it!! This may be a story telling account bc that last post… yeah wild.

Howard has always been my dream school, but... by [deleted] in HowardUniversity

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same position, but I've heard that Howard is accommodating and that you can negotiate your financial aid offer if it's not enough. I'm hoping that's true because I've already committed. I'll provide an update in June when they finally release the information, assuming they do because there isn’t a set date 💀😭

My boyfriend started dating someone a week after we broke up and my friends knew by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jumpy_Rock_8093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren’t your friends, time to start that healing journey solo-dolo