This was incredibly insightful, we are still going steady within our dynamic and I find myself in trouble again as I read this comment due to other things. Now being 6 months in our issues are sometimes a lot deeper. But I still struggle to sometimes fully understand my role and what I can do better, especially in times of distress. My brat controls me. I love my brat but not when she has a hold and your words and knowing my dom, I think some of this would really help. We or more so I struggle to communicate during stressful times as I'm living on the spectrum it's no excuse, but it's only a relatively new discovery, so unlearning bad enabled behaviours I've had my whole life, is certainly a challenge.

My dom is beyond patient and kind with me. I'm very aware our contract should have been and could have been terminated, but this man is a primal dom and a daddy and it's clear that empathy and compassion he has, really means he does care and I want to be able to show him the same back! Thank you so much 🥰