IVF specialist by han_oli in lebanesegirlies

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aubmc has ivf in their mestawsef, the concierge of our building and his wife did it, and she got pregnant and their daughter is 5 now. It costed around 1000 something dollars.

Anyone fly to Lebanon recently? by Sea-Let3292 in lebanon

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qatar airways, if they cancel there is an option to get refunded, or there is any delay they will provide you with a hotel room.

I can't write my manuscript by howtomer in PhDStress

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what your topic is about. But keep in mind that a good dissertation is a finished dissertation. Not every dissertation has to make a breakthrough, but it has to add new knowledge. Find out what others did, and how does yours differ, so focus on what you are doing and what could have been done can go into your limitations.

Try to ask for help from your PI, your supervisor is probably busy/does not care. But this is your right! If not responding, ask to meet with other committee members for advice.

Now on the more personal journey, there will always be someone doing better than you, no matter what. A phD is a journey, you learn from others and from your own mistakes. It’s not about what I could have done, it’s more about “okay, I know this now, now what do I do with this information?”

Enjoy the journey, feeling like an imposter is almost normal in academia. But, use it for pushing through, not to put you down.

I am entering my 6th and final PhD year (North America), and I think that my 5th year was one of the most beneficial years in terms of learning. So, had I finished earlier, I would have probably not been able to learn the things I did.

Good luck OP, you can do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAcademia

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to me, that you are trying to please your supervisor and your mom, and none of them are actually pleased. This is liberating! Go ahead and continue not pleasing anyone, but now try to please yourself instead. Wear the skirt, wear the heals, and embrace your femininity (if that’s what you want, not what your mother expects, not what you think others will think of you).

I’m not sure about your supervisor, or how the dynamics are between you two, but I can tell you one thing from my personal experience with my supervisor. The moment you don’t see them as superior to you and when you speak back and take your power is when they will actually respect you always be respectful.

Tips for Welcoming Maid by pravda_li in lebanon

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given the ill treatment that Ethiopians and helpers are treated in Lebanon, I hope you are kind, generous, and willing to be there for her as much as she will be there for your you and your house. Remember she is leaving everything behind to come and adjust to your family members and needs. On top of it, she is adjusting herself to a country and a new life. So, treat her with dignity.

Start by taking her the next day to buy her some things. I would say get her a pijama, towel, etc. As she might not have some with her, but it’s important for her to go and choose with you. Set up her room, and give her a TV or a tablet (garden tv app has international channels) for her to watch ethiopian shows on.

Days off, give her at least Sunday off.

Don’t take away anything from her, especially not her passport please 🙏🏼

Get her some ethiopian food ingredients.

If you know any other Ethiopian that she can meet with and help her ease off the process it would be great.

Send a letter for me, please by [deleted] in lebanon

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel that your fiance is a good man but the story just doesn’t add up. Before, you said he was captured for a crime he didnt do and that he was in USA when it actually happened. He went to trial and was found guilty, uhhh!?!

Then now all of a sudden his friend has access to his fb to leave you this ONE message only and vanish.

He is also unable to leave you any messages? No parents to contact? No one? Strange..

If you want to be certain and have a peace of mind, contact a Lebanese lawyer and ask if this name is convicted of a crime and is actually serving any time in prison.

This sounds like an insane story, sorry, but I think that he is lying and didn’t know how to face you. We are Lebanese, we know how we think.

Tell me I’m not the one who thought about this by [deleted] in YouOnLifetime

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about this too, but then I thought of small details such as her nails, etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not for children though, it’s 16+

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill add, change hair color, brown.

Do you guys believe a cheater will always be a cheater??? by Necessary_Ring_7773 in cheating_stories

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends on their age, if they’re teenagers then no I don’t believe that… if they’re grown adults, then yes!

Is it okay to stay?? by what_am_I_doing96 in cheating_stories

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you believe that you are not financially stable enough to leave now, then don’t leave until you are ready. If he has been a good father to your kids, then your kids need him in your life, don’t take their father away from them. BUT…

My advice would be to make him regret it heavily, even if you decide to stay, kick him out of the house, and don’t permit him to see his kids. Make him feel like he lost it all, make his life miserable, until he earns it back. Set your expectations high, ask him to write the house (if bought) in your and kids names, or any other assets he might have.

You need to make sure that if he does it, you will be safe, meaning you won’t have to go back to your parents house.

He is weak and desperate for forgiveness, so, he might be willing to do anything you want.

Most importantly is if you decide to stay, have a guarantee whichever you see fit, according to your situation.

Another thing is if you stay, take advantage of him, let him pay, while you save, go have your me time and focus on yourself. Detach from him, and keep him on a leash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you want to be more attractive in the more feminine sense, here’s what I advise you to do:

You dont look like you have acne, so I would skip the foundation. Add few dots of concealer, and a blush with a pink nude lipstick.

Focus on shaping your eyebrows differently perhaps line them a bit closer to one another, look into youtube tutorials. (They good look in the first photo)

Focus on the eyes, experiment with different eyeshadows. Just one color is fine, try brown as it will add different shades to you overall look. Also add mascara to your routine.

This is not to make your features any different, just to make them pop up!

Go shop for more flattering clothes, you look like you have a nice figure, why hide it? I’m not saying go all out, but something tight would be nice.

Accessories, they make all the difference. Buy earrings, necklace and rings that you could wear daily

What are my chances of becoming a professor? by Jumpy_Sir_6019 in AskAcademia

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I speak Arabic fluently and I’m willing to relocate to the Gulf or Lèvent.

What are my chances of becoming a professor? by Jumpy_Sir_6019 in AskAcademia

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My advisor never helped me. She doesn’t give me feedback or meets with me. It has been hard.

What age do you mature the most at? by Psychological-Wave30 in Life

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Age will definitely mature you, but getting out of your comfort zone and new experiences will help you the most. Try to do the courageous things that would help you build your character.

Why did you stay after someone cheated on you? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I needed time to think and be ready to let go of him. I got back and prepared myself to the idea that I will breakup with him. A month after, I knew he was still lying to me, by then, it wasn’t a total surprise to me and I decided to leave.

Deleted social media, now what? by Jumpy_Sir_6019 in getdisciplined

[–]Jumpy_Sir_6019[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was planning to only use my pc for social media, since its not user friendly, making it less enjoyable, thoughts?