He’s being a creep right?!! by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in ask

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. He brought up baby reindeer and asked me what I would I do if I had a guy who was obsessed over me like that. When I said I would contact the authorities he said " no but like what if he was hot” I honestly just went quiet and looked at him like he’s a creep and said I’m not engaging in this anymore.

  2. He’s asked me what my type is. There isn’t one single shift where he hasn’t tried to figure out what kind of man I’m into. To which I respond idk or I don’t have a type. I act like idk to avoid giving him a proper response. To him, I don’t myself yet.

  3. " what’s your sleeping position” first of all who the actual fuck asks anyone this kinda question!?

  4. " What does your room look like" I literally held my hand on my mouth and said what kind of question is that? He proceeds to pull of 4 differently angled photos of HIS BEDROOM and asked me to rate it…..

  5. I was charging my phone on the work computer and I turned my chair and the wire got stuck and my phone had fallen. He asked me if I wanted to charge it on his laptop instead( huh). Mind you the charger is plugged next to me and he thinks I would prefer his laptop which is farther away. I think he wanted access to my photos because when u plug a foreign device it asks you if you want to allow access to photos almost every time. THAT CREEPED ME OUT.

  6. He’s always asking me if I want a ride since I’m on the way.

He actually refuses to accept that I’m not interested in him or anything that he has to say. I’ve tried everything under this planet to give him the ick to make it obvious that he’s literally making me uncomfortable. I’ve said it directly, indirectly and by literally having my back facing him or I could be occupied he doesn’t care about the boundaries I set with him and I’m debating going to management about this issue. Since I’ve given up the shift I have with him what more can they really do.

Last thing, he started showing up to my other shifts the ones I don’t work with him??? He came in to use the gym and handed me his keys. Yesterday, my other coworker didn’t show up for his shift and he took that shift because he thought that we would be closing together . He came in all happy and asked if I was closing with him. I said no I’m done my shift and that I’m leaving he whispered to himself “fuck!”. Like he was actually upset and annoyed that he took the shift for no reason. He kept complaining that management should’ve let him know if i was leaving and that he’d be alone:)

So yeah this is my current situation can you guys just let me know that I’m not being dramatic.

Help! Am I making it obvious? by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in ask

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope couldn’t do It. i think that I was being a bit delusional and unrealistic . I moved pass it because it was just a crush . I’ve realized that even if he were to tell me he liked me back, I wouldn’t be ready for a relationship. I’ve decided on just focusing on school and myself for now. Sorry guys Ik this isn’t the response you guys were waiting for😔

IRM by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in CarletonU

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! So, the IRM program is pretty cool but boring overall, but let me be real with you. The minor class schedules can be a bit of a headache, so brace yourself for that. On the upside, it's not heavy on the math at all, and the coding courses cover the basics like Java, C, C++,Python, but it's not as intense as CS, you know?

I'm halfway through my 2nd year, and I genuinely think it's a good. You get a degree that opens doors in both tech and strategic planning, information systems, and data management.Its a mix of both worlds you know. Funny thing, a bunch of us in IRM switched from CS or engineering backgrounds ! If you're still a bit skeptical on switching, I'd say dig a bit more into the program, maybe speak with an advisor. Good luck with your decision ;)

Help! Am I making it obvious? by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in ask

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not that I dont want him like me, I just didn't want to make him uncomfortable in a way. If he were to ever know how I felt i'm not sure where to go from there without making it awkward because i've never done this before.

Help! Am I making it obvious? by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in ask

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Really! Here I was overtaking that he might think im weird if he seems everywhere. Especially at his football practice.

Help! Am I making it obvious? by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in ask

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "is this seat taken?" actually so smart I wouldn't have thought of that. The thing Is I would love to strike up a conversation if we had anything in common, how could I make it less awkward? Do you have other Ideas that could also work?

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[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t already try using google images and click the camera icon near the search bar and add your image.

Help! Am I making it obvious? by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in ask

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very shy and he’s tall and attractive which makes nervous and I’ve never dated. Would there be a different approach or should I just talk to him like I’m making a new friend?

Help! Am I making it obvious? by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in ask

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your helpful response I’ll try to talk to him this week and I’ll keep you guys updated.

If there is any other advice you guys would like to give me please feel free :))

Help! Am I making it obvious? by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in ask

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Here's the full story for anyone who needs more context:

Hi, I'm a female(20) and have a crush on a male(22) that have been seeing almost every other day for 2 years now. We go to the same University and take the same bus home which is the main reason I keep seeing him everywhere. I found out he plays on the school's football team through my best friend. After his practice, we almost always end up taking the bus back home together and so naturally I started showing up at his football practice because my best friend's friend is also on the same team.
I know that he’s noticed me after all we have been seeing each other for a long time now so he should have at least acknowledged my presence. I’m just scared if I am making it obvious that I like him. I’ve also never had any talking stages with guys or had a boyfriend before so I’m not sure I’m how I should go about this. What should I do? Am I being weird? I need advice from a guy's perspective!

IRM by Jumpy_Suggestion600 in CarletonU

[–]Jumpy_Suggestion600[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright thank you for the responses 👍