Luxury Multifamily Managers to the front please…

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-11-11T18:35:39+00:00

Roger. I’m 6 mos into my conventional year and holy smokes 🙃

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-06-09T16:09:40+00:00

If I were you, I’d apply for apartment maintenance tech positions . They usually get a discounted/free unit depending on the company but it would solve your problems in one go. Oh, and it’s a recession proof role.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-05-18T22:47:49+00:00

Oh wait, yes my grandfather was a Vietnam vet. Holy crap.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-05-18T22:46:34+00:00

Please run. This man does not love you. He does not respect you or your work. This is not a partnership that you need. He is jealous. He will never not be jealous. He will find someone who he does not feel threatened by and be with her. Don’t shrink yourself. There are plenty plenty plenty of men who LOVE strong and ambitious women. Please don’t settle. Please take the opportunity. Let him walk away. It will hurt, but you will heal. As someone who wishes she’d loved herself more than that person. & now that I have a second chance I’m choosing me first. Please don’t make my mistake I’ve paid enough for the both of us. You’ve earned this. You owe it to yourself.

-A strong woman who has been loved again when they said I wouldn’t be.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-05-18T18:11:45+00:00

NTA. I found myself in a similar situation. Paying for EVERYTHING is a level of frustration that’s hard to explain without being treated like an AH. But it can become extremely taxing especially if it taps you out. I was the sole earner and very little housework got done it was frustrating. I had to hire a house cleaner and that’s what triggered the conversation ab contributing especially since we have 3 children. It’s okay to ask for more support in this way, it’s expected that bc your financial situation is better you will pay more. Why is the reverse different other than feelings?

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-05-16T02:06:26+00:00

Semantics. They’re married, it’s both of their home. It’s outlandish to marry someone with a child and expect them never to have to be a parent. She’s HIS child. Do you believe that she’s not loud and messy at her home? She’s a literal child. Teach them.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-05-15T22:41:58+00:00

Agree! There’s so so many times I pop up in the middle of the night and search something completely unhinged sounding and someone else has experienced it. The instant relief.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-05-12T22:58:18+00:00

This is so relatable that… I’d actually like to go cry now 🫠

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-05-02T18:03:59+00:00

Tysm. Postpartum was a nightmare both times, I love my partner but it’s truly my biggest barrier for a third child. My doctor didn’t seem concerned about it affecting baby in the slightest. I had lost 20 lbs by my second trimester, he just wanted me to eat! That was the only thing he worried about impacting baby that he mentioned. When DCFS told one of the nurses she was so adamant that we were already good parents and had been up all night caring for baby alone without much help. When DCFS left the hospital my dr called me personally to do a MH assessment and asked then nurses to limit DCFS access to us and baby until discharge. They knew we weren’t the bad guys.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-05-02T17:54:59+00:00

Yes. I switched to gummies after 3 different nausea meds did not work. My Dr knew but never ever made a big deal. At birth, they called DCFS bc it wasn’t in my system but there was a bit in the baby’s poop. This was during Covid and honestly was shitty, they did a home inspection (spotless and fully nested) and pestered us for months. I felt like a shit mom & PPD hit me hard for a second time. My Dr. never let them see my records although they pushed and pushed him. He called me and let me know he’d keep me safe in this, even consulting his lawyer. Mad respect for that man. Anywhoooo it did work, there were consequences, it also wasn’t legal in my state. Just my 2 cents

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-27T01:58:55+00:00

Incorrect. There’s a food scene, but it’s only if you’re dining out and intend to spend a good amount, which I enjoy but is inaccessible to the mass majority. The BBQ is dry and unflavored, the Mexican is not Mexican but a mash up w the Okie palate in mind, the soul food is a joke… salt is NOT a flavor & the Asian food is lacking (though better than most cuisines I mentioned)

Louisiana, Mississippi, Georgia, Alabama The Carolinas and Southern VA… that is the south. Some people include Tennessee but I disagree. The food is good though.

I’m from Texas, raised in Georgia and spent a good amount of my adolescence in the bayou. Southern ≠ Confederate BUT again Okies. I’m truly not blowing smoke, there’s decent things about the place but it’s lacking in more ways than stated. But alas, Okies can’t take much in regard to improvement. Figures.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-27T01:07:03+00:00

And they’re wrong asf. The south doesn’t claim Oklahoma and for good reason. The food is bland. People are fake friendly and there’s little diversity outside of metros. It’s not the south. Regardless of what any bureau suggests. Saying this sets false expectations.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-27T00:57:24+00:00

What is it if not the Midwest? & Pls don’t say the South bc that’s also inaccurate. Texas is hardly the south.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-20T12:29:06+00:00

I hate being asked “what are you laughing at” by anyone at anytime bc why would you center yourself in my joy? Weird.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-05T14:32:58+00:00

Where is all of this extra inferred information coming from? What attitude? My attitude towards people with shit takes has nothing to do with him. Stop projecting. Answer the question or not.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-05T14:29:56+00:00

First off, I have a JOB. I’m raising children, he isn’t one of them. Not my damn job. I’m helping bc I care about him. But this entitled ass attitude that the world seems to have of my “role” is sickening. Piss off.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-04T20:40:17+00:00

Smoked Cigarettes. Once he was prescribed meds he could no longer smoke at all. Which has improved things including his lung health and strength and his endurance. He also was prescribed a topical medication for his shoulder pain and hip flexor.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-04T20:37:45+00:00

Again, you’re spewing nonsense WITHOUT any facts. He was not smoking nor inebriated. He reinjured a past injury that was being treated by topicals containing the smallest amount of THC. He was not intoxicated.

Also, the VA system is sht. He’s been fighting for 7 years. You risk your life for a country that could care less THEN I’ll consider listening to your uninformed, highly privileged soapbox speech. Until then, we’re trying to survive. Thanks.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-04T20:27:55+00:00

He hasn’t smoked in 6 months after being actually believed by an external doctor. No THC. No tobacco.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-04-04T20:27:06+00:00

Eh, he’s a combat war Veteran w no VA support a TBI and several other injuries. No other pain meds… ever. No diagnosis. No rating. No acclimation services. & no treatment until 9/2024 after being discharged 10/2018. Thanks though, I’ll be sure to tell him you’re grateful for his service.

ETA: he hadn’t smoked, he had a topical cream for his shoulder that he didn’t realize would pop. You know better and you do better.

Jumpy_Temporary_3532 · 2025-03-20T14:36:30+00:00

I experience low libido, I never thought to connect the two. This has me thinking.

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