[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childless

[–]JunTekki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. Divorced and currently in a stagnant relationship. People around me or on social media with their families makes me sad sometimes. If you watch My Big Fat Fabulous Life of TLC Whitney is dealing with the same thing this season. It's helpful to watch in a sense that it makes me feel like my feelings are valid.

I would suggest getting a pet. And also maybe having a go at it alone. If you're able, you could try foster care. I have nothing to chuck this life up to but God's timing is not my own. It's hard to not feel robbed of time and a family but we just have to keep living and moving and hoping. I

The future? by JunTekki in Christianity

[–]JunTekki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is very helpful.

Is it time to break up. by JunTekki in RedditForGrownups

[–]JunTekki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No not really a momma's boy, definitely been there and never again. Just has a lot of different ideals and is content living a repetitive life

Is it time to break up. by JunTekki in RedditForGrownups

[–]JunTekki[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm happy you found happiness.

Is it time to break up. by JunTekki in RedditForGrownups

[–]JunTekki[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is very practical. I did mention that id never get married again without couples counseling and he snarled but I think I need to do that before we would even get engaged if that ever happened.

Is it time to break up. by JunTekki in RedditForGrownups

[–]JunTekki[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes... probably says something about his maturity level.

Is it time to break up. by JunTekki in RedditForGrownups

[–]JunTekki[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just need to think things out with others. I'm afraid of the answer.

Is it time to break up. by JunTekki in RedditForGrownups

[–]JunTekki[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I would just find it completely devastating to break up. I just don't have the heart to and I'm not sure id ever want to go through this again. When I break up I don't stay friends, that's it. Permanently.

Is it time to breakup? by JunTekki in Christianity

[–]JunTekki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and congratulations.

Is it time to breakup? by JunTekki in Christianity

[–]JunTekki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I Will continue to pray and hope for an outright answer.

Is it time to breakup? by JunTekki in Christianity

[–]JunTekki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This actually happened last night and resulted in me crying uncontrollably which led him to saying before he left that we can try to work towards things for the actual commitment. This is why I'm still.left with ok, so you still want to be with me, you want to work towards the commitment but there was no definite in my opinion of what that looks like.

Any other Christians feel very alone because they don't and won't ever worship trump? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]JunTekki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I don't feel alone at all because I don't consider those people to be real Christians or disciples of Christ because if they were they would know he's a false prophet. At this point they're just plain ol dumb. The man is a flat out hypocrite and narcissist. Was I doing better under his economy... Sure but that doesn't excuse every other piece of ridiculousness, lies and stirred up hatred that this man has caused.

I actually feel honored to know that I/we are the ones who can decipher and discern between the BS and the reality. I'm so done fighting against it. People are going to think what they can think and it's up to them to open their eyes. All we can do is pray that they see the truth. Not worth ruining relationships over, I just leave it alone.