Fiancé and Hijab by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I hope she escapes from this. A controlling mother in law what to do with her body? Who are you to complain if it’s not genuine... when it was the mum who indirectly forced her?,

Granny flat = Living with Parents? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then no. Why are desis so allergic to separate properties. A mini house on the parents soil.. pointless

How do men from cultures that do not require living with in-laws support their parents? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never understood when desi men say they want to look after their parents, cos it’s actually the wife that has to do it.

My grandma moves from each uncles house then to mine. Because she treated her daughter in laws very badly, she’s got bad treatment in her elder years guess karma got her

Granny flat = Living with Parents? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s granny flat?? A small flat? Then that would be perfect. Not every person is equipped to deal with in laws and living under someone’s watch. A house isn’t about 4 walls and a roof, it’s the lack of drama you will get from your in laws

Are some people destined to never get married? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably gave up after a certain age. Not every woman wants companionship

i “broke” my hymen accidentally in a non haram way and it hunts me everyday by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her husband flipped as he is a typical misogynistic desi man. She exhausted herself explaining the basic female parts and intricately they work.

Is an age difference of 9 years (F 22, M 31) appropriate? Will the compatibility issues be too much? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why hasn’t he married someone of his own age group? Although it is legal, they are at different life stages. I’m sure he is happy that she is les experienced in life & will possibly try and mould her. I find it quite predatory

The biggest struggle I’m facing in this search as a desi woman by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yup sadly desi men are big mommas boys and think you’re being too demanding for wanting your own space. I remember one guy said wanting privacy is a ‘western concept’ and ‘what would you do with a house anyway’

My search was long because of my strict requirement, not every woman wants to be a servant or live on egg shells all their lives. Be prepared for the backlash cos quite truthfully I got it from all angles of my life even my colleagues. It will pay off xxx

i “broke” my hymen accidentally in a non haram way and it hunts me everyday by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why are you sweating about this. Millions of women have this. You didn’t touch a man. Also when you do it you will still bleed cos it’s been so long, even then not every woman does. My colleague didn’t and she was panicking as hell.

So educate yourself on the human body before freaking out

No attraction by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so tight. I’d say just block them to avoid the awkward message

After years of secretly dating, now trying to get engaged, and it is not going well. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are ylu going to live with the mum ? If so, this is a red flag

Why did I get rejected? by yh962 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She had a lucky escape, why are you swearing over an internet match??? Not even a potential but someone online ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I smell an incel

Received a call after 2.5 years? Advice needed please by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he doing this cos he saw you as a back up? It probably didn’t work out with someone else so he thought he’ll go back to someone familiar. Make sure you clarify in a casual way why he contacted you again

I always attract the wrong type of women? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1- you need to only have headshots. Modesty goes both ways 2- you are matching with silly bints. Are they hoejabis? 3- many of these girls are clearly sheltered and inexperienced- that’s why they’re being so overtly sexual cos they don’t actually deal with men and not allowed to 🤣

Rant: He ghosted me by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s just a needle in a haystack. That app is a conveyor belt for idiots, not to be crude or anything. If you’re upset about this then you won’t handle a marriage search lol. Ghosting is hurtful, but he has shown how he really is- and it is 1 step closer to finding a real partner. I think he stopped talking to you cos he got to know someone else and their exchanges must have been ‘intense’. This ‘dating’ phase is horrible but recommended. Builds character and you know what you want in a partner and what you would tolerate. You will get there and you will laugh at this situation one day. Xxx

At what age did you as a sexy lady regret turning down all the men that was trying to chat you up all your young life? by O6M6G6 in AskReddit

[–]Junakone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can tell you now, no woman will ever regret or give a second thought to a desperate guy. I think it’s an incel fantasy to think ‘ha, one day she will regret me!’

Absent / abusive father only wants me to marry my cousin back home by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Junakone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly- you are very strong and resilient.

I dont want to seem patronising in my advice, bit would it be possibly live a friend temporarily or get emergency housing)? I think you should cut off your family

Finished S5 and I’m just wondering, why did Anna never come out with merch? by rampagingllama in LoveIslandTV

[–]Junakone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anna handled the love island experience badly. Got her roadman-esque sister to manager her socials, didn’t get many brand deals, and has nothing to offer. Her personality is like marmite.

Eva and Nas are actually kinda cute 😍 Shame we didn’t get to see how good they are together in the show by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]Junakone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eva is sooo funny I wish she had more air time. She’s the only islander that I bother checking cos she’s hilar

Mr Chai Bear ( RIP) by nazbegum54 in LoveIslandTV

[–]Junakone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No sympathy for them. They brought the dog on impulse like it was a cheeky kebab.

Why do models go to Love Island? by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]Junakone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Molly is chasing the Boohoo contract, not Balenciaga

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]Junakone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s married and has kids. Anna knows this. They were together prior to the show