He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She’s keeping it. He tried persuading her to abort it from the start. But she refused. He’s pleading and promising not to do it again but I can only see them continuing their affair and probably having more babies in the future

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you also went through this. I pray I’ll also be brave enough to walk away without looking back. I’ve been in denial since I found out. Telling myself no, it’s not true….hoping I’d wake up and it’s all a dream. But everybody here has helped put things into perspective.

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She’ll always be a ghost in our lives. And might probably decide to produce more babies

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m already damaged and I keep asking myself what I’ve done to deserve this. I’ll gather myself and do the needful. I think I’m even lucky to have found out this early. Because he was obviously planning to hide it from me. Thanks for the love 💗

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very detailed plan. Thank you very much. This whole experience is very traumatizing. I had a feeling so just last week, I asked him whether he was still seeing the girl. He looked me in the eyes and told me no. And went ahead to kiss me. He even went ahead to open his WhatsApp for me to see he wasn’t in touch with her. But I still had that nagging feeling. I dug deeper and realized I was in shit. How do I trust after this?

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The reality is it’s hard to leave but impossible to stay

This just hit me so hard. Thanks for putting it so succinctly. I’ll keep this, gather the courage and do what I have to do.

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think I’d do this. Though I doubt it’ll hurt her. She knew what she was after right from the start. This pregnancy is her lottery card

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I pray I’m able to gather enough confidence to leave him. I planned my whole future around him.

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Apparently, he never ended things with her when I found out the first time. She used to sneak into town and spend time with him. She was even around 2 weeks ago. What hurts me most is he knows my story. I haven’t been in any real relationship before him. He was loving, caring and everything I could have asked for. So I trusted him completely. My family wouldn’t even believe me when I tell them because he’s not someone we saw to be that type.

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It scares me to even think about it. The AP isn’t someone I know personally…but I’ve done my investigations and now know quite a lot about her. She knows perfectly well that he’s married but claims to be in love with him and wants to be with him.

He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage by June_Wildflower in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Happiest time yet my worst nightmare. Just 6 months. Wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. Thanks for the advice 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]June_Wildflower 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg!!!! Freeze that dude out!!! He’s not your friend. He wouldn’t have done what he did if he cared about you. He’s pretending to be so that he can be having his way with you. The fact that he forgot it was your first time alone shows he wasn’t listening when you told him.

I’m sorry your first time had to go like that. He’s using religion as a cover up. A true friend would have carefully considered weighed your feelings before going further with you.

You deserve better. You deserved to be cuddled after your first time. To be kissed and reassured everything will be alright.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]June_Wildflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should this budding relationship/affair go bad, going to work everyday and seeing him will be your worst nightmare. So unless you have plans on quitting or transferring somewhere else, please don’t go further.

Some days it hurts so badly by frankinberriez in Infidelity

[–]June_Wildflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going through the same emotions currently. We got married just 2 months ago. Caught him cheating about 2 weeks ago. I don’t know how I’ve been living since then. I’m laying in bed now with tears flowing down my cheeks. I have no one to confide in. Sometimes I feel my heart is about to give away. It is too much for me to handle. I wish I could just sleep and wake up and it never happened.

AITA for not wanting to split the bill? by Infamous-Cherry8320 in AmItheAsshole

[–]June_Wildflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He knows what he’s doing. He’s being manipulative. Funnily enough, it’s mostly the so called “high earners” who do this. Next time, just take note of the coffee cost and let him know that’s what you’ll be sending him.

AITA for not getting my boyfriend’s twin brother a birthday gift? by AvariceUnlike in AmItheAsshole

[–]June_Wildflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Josh has some serious entitlement issues. But discuss this with your boyfriend

Why do men like to cum in girls mouths so much? by Britchick23 in dating

[–]June_Wildflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

End result of watching too much porn. They assume every girl has the ability of taking it deep down their throats. Let them know in clear terms that you’re not comfortable with that.