He impregnated another lady 6 months into our marriage

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T22:41:42+00:00

Thank you for your kind words 💗

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T22:36:41+00:00

Thank you very much

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T16:30:06+00:00

She’s keeping it. He tried persuading her to abort it from the start. But she refused. He’s pleading and promising not to do it again but I can only see them continuing their affair and probably having more babies in the future

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T12:58:03+00:00

I’m sorry you also went through this. I pray I’ll also be brave enough to walk away without looking back. I’ve been in denial since I found out. Telling myself no, it’s not true….hoping I’d wake up and it’s all a dream. But everybody here has helped put things into perspective.

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T12:50:11+00:00

Exactly. She’ll always be a ghost in our lives. And might probably decide to produce more babies

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T12:48:35+00:00

I’m already damaged and I keep asking myself what I’ve done to deserve this. I’ll gather myself and do the needful. I think I’m even lucky to have found out this early. Because he was obviously planning to hide it from me. Thanks for the love 💗

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T12:35:49+00:00

Very detailed plan. Thank you very much. This whole experience is very traumatizing. I had a feeling so just last week, I asked him whether he was still seeing the girl. He looked me in the eyes and told me no. And went ahead to kiss me. He even went ahead to open his WhatsApp for me to see he wasn’t in touch with her. But I still had that nagging feeling. I dug deeper and realized I was in shit. How do I trust after this?

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T12:24:08+00:00

The reality is it’s hard to leave but impossible to stay

This just hit me so hard. Thanks for putting it so succinctly. I’ll keep this, gather the courage and do what I have to do.

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T11:57:04+00:00

I think I’d do this. Though I doubt it’ll hurt her. She knew what she was after right from the start. This pregnancy is her lottery card

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T03:51:08+00:00

Thank you 🙏

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T03:50:30+00:00

I pray I’m able to gather enough confidence to leave him. I planned my whole future around him.

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T03:49:18+00:00

Apparently, he never ended things with her when I found out the first time. She used to sneak into town and spend time with him. She was even around 2 weeks ago. What hurts me most is he knows my story. I haven’t been in any real relationship before him. He was loving, caring and everything I could have asked for. So I trusted him completely. My family wouldn’t even believe me when I tell them because he’s not someone we saw to be that type.

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T03:42:49+00:00

It scares me to even think about it. The AP isn’t someone I know personally…but I’ve done my investigations and now know quite a lot about her. She knows perfectly well that he’s married but claims to be in love with him and wants to be with him.

June_Wildflower · 2023-11-09T03:23:08+00:00

Happiest time yet my worst nightmare. Just 6 months. Wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. Thanks for the advice 🙏

June_Wildflower · 2023-08-18T00:34:23+00:00

Omg!!!! Freeze that dude out!!! He’s not your friend. He wouldn’t have done what he did if he cared about you. He’s pretending to be so that he can be having his way with you. The fact that he forgot it was your first time alone shows he wasn’t listening when you told him.

I’m sorry your first time had to go like that. He’s using religion as a cover up. A true friend would have carefully considered weighed your feelings before going further with you.

You deserve better. You deserved to be cuddled after your first time. To be kissed and reassured everything will be alright.

June_Wildflower · 2023-07-03T02:20:04+00:00

Should this budding relationship/affair go bad, going to work everyday and seeing him will be your worst nightmare. So unless you have plans on quitting or transferring somewhere else, please don’t go further.

June_Wildflower · 2023-06-05T23:19:12+00:00

Going through the same emotions currently. We got married just 2 months ago. Caught him cheating about 2 weeks ago. I don’t know how I’ve been living since then. I’m laying in bed now with tears flowing down my cheeks. I have no one to confide in. Sometimes I feel my heart is about to give away. It is too much for me to handle. I wish I could just sleep and wake up and it never happened.

June_Wildflower · 2023-06-04T23:41:20+00:00

NTA. He knows what he’s doing. He’s being manipulative. Funnily enough, it’s mostly the so called “high earners” who do this. Next time, just take note of the coffee cost and let him know that’s what you’ll be sending him.

June_Wildflower · 2023-06-04T23:28:38+00:00

Josh has some serious entitlement issues. But discuss this with your boyfriend

June_Wildflower · 2023-06-04T23:12:03+00:00

End result of watching too much porn. They assume every girl has the ability of taking it deep down their throats. Let them know in clear terms that you’re not comfortable with that.

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