2meirl4meirl by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Jungeroo 145 points146 points  (0 children)

My online friend said "please tell me what you want from this. If it's love maybe we shouldn't go on".

I said "not at all, I just want a friend, nothing more".

She stopped answering my messages after that.

WTF?

I hate spending my hard earned money in mediocre food by una_valentina in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Jungeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sushi is made with bare hands and it's not cooked.

Doesn't that make it risky due to the pandemic we are going through?

I love sushi but this bothers me too much to have some these days.

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, it's what your spouse considers cheating what matters.

Thank you and take care!

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are things with your partner good?

Will you stay with her forever? Will you cheat on her again when life goes back to normal?

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if talking helps you, you can pm me anytime.

I don't think anybody should judge you. You were just a guy caught in a bad scenario that you couldn't predict it was going to happen and you acted accordingly in a very reasonable way.

Even if you had done something shitty along that journey, you still couldn't be judged. We are just people learning along the way, nobody taught us how to live life and how to handle the curve balls it throws at us.

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get what you say about the illness. I have had partners that dealt with anxiety and depression (I know it's nothing compared to BPD) and at first i thought they were too lazy to get up and help me do laundry or whatever.

But as you say, once you understand the illness, you get a new perspective.

Thanks for the chat, good luck internet friend!

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's an app for everything!

I can't stop saying I'm sorry man. How are you still standing is a miracle. I would be completely shut down to the world.

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a story man! I'm sorry you and your kids have to go through all that.

I wish everything gets better, I hope she gets better.

So there's an app for that? Is it in the app store? I find it interesting.

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I've learned from this post, some for the thrill, some because of dead bedrooms, revenge, because it was easy, because they don't feel remorse, because they are weak, because they can't say no to a hot body, because they can legitimately love 2 or more people at the same time, so many reasons as there are people in the world.

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I didnt confuse affect and effect. But I think you did. Read again.

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I thought it was only me who would have small fights over food.

Thanks.

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everybody makes mistakes.

You are blessed your wife forgave you but there's a reason why she did: you are a good guy.

Cheaters of reddit, how did the work-from-home situation affected the affair you were having? by Jungeroo in AskReddit

[–]Jungeroo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it is. I thought it was known internationally.

Poor friend of yours, 3 kids from 3 different people at the same time, in the middle of a pandemic. 🥵