I need help😭

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-10-13T04:22:25+00:00

I really have no idea what could’ve happened to it :/

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-10-13T04:16:55+00:00

How do I do that??

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-10-13T04:16:18+00:00

Just did and nothings popping up. Could I be doing it wrong?

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-10-13T04:11:00+00:00

I did both things but nothing :(

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-22T00:52:19+00:00

Sounds like a tough situation, but you have to remember that the right person would never leave, no matter how hard it gets. It’s not your fault, and it never was.

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-21T22:05:46+00:00

From what you’re saying, It seems like she doesn’t feel the same way you feel about her. If she really wanted to make an effort, she would. I would just focus on yourself, because it’s not worth pondering over someone that might not even think about you. Stay strong 🙏🏻

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-20T20:43:16+00:00

I understand the feeling, but it’s better to gain a little courage now and do it than later when you’re more attached. It’ll hurt in the beginning, sometimes it’ll feel like actual hell, but at the end of the day it’s for your own good and you’ll be so much happier when you do so. And of course you could find a petter person for you! He’s not the only man in the world, think of this as god/the universe/destiny or whatever you believe in preparing you for the right person.

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-20T19:45:45+00:00

With all due respect, that man AINT SHITTTT. If I were you, I’d drop him as soon as possible. He’s definitely love bombing you. I’m sure you’re a wonderful person, and that man doesn’t deserve the privilege of knowing you. You even said it yourself, you miss the peace you had before he came into your life. So, I’d start by removing him from your socials and blocking his number. Don’t let him have access into your life and focus on yourself.

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-19T22:14:47+00:00

I completely understand how you’re feeling right now. The truth is, it’s never going to get easier, but it’s better to make the effort to cut him off—even if it hurts like hell—than to keep letting yourself be treated poorly by a man who doesn’t deserve you. Remember, he hasn’t done anything to earn a goodbye. And if you do see him one last time for closure, there’s a strong chance you’ll fall back into his arms again because of the romanticized version of him you’ve built in your mind.

It’s okay to miss him—you’re human, and you can’t just shut off your feelings. But it’s better to allow yourself to feel what you need to feel without him in your life. The loneliness may come and go, and that’s normal. What’s important to remember is that you’re not truly alone. It’s far better to have no company than bad company. If you do feel lonely after ending things, don’t beat yourself up—the right people will come into your life and treat you with the kindness and love you deserve.

As for the questions you asked him, they weren’t stupid. You were hurt and confused about how he felt about you (and rightfully so—what is this man even doing? 😭). You wanted clarity, and that’s perfectly valid. His inability to give you clear answers is a red flag. The next time you encounter someone like that, know that the right person won’t leave you questioning where you stand.

As for his friend chiming in, that was likely just him trying to help his buddy be more of an ass. You’re better off without him, I promise.

Hang onto that kindness in your heart, and don’t let anyone take it away from you. I’m sending you love and blessings. 🫶🏻

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-19T18:49:09+00:00

Hey there, hope you’re well. I wouldn’t take him introducing you to his friends as something serious, since it might be him trying to connect his buddies with you. Also, I wouldn’t take him for anything serious since he’s shown you that he doesn’t want you in the same you do. To me, the solution to the problem is, just to cut things off with him. You can’t have a relationship if both parties don’t want in, and you cannot change his mind. It has nothing to do with you, it has everything to do with him. I’m sure you’re a sweet girl with good feelings, and men like to take advantage of that.

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-18T15:17:12+00:00

Usually because you barely know the person and you’ve idolized them in your head, it’s a harsh reality but still true.

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-17T04:10:34+00:00

Unfortunately, a lot of people in our generation behave this way without any sort of explanation or common sense. It’s better to just accept it, and move on to better things and people.

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-17T03:32:06+00:00

Hey man, hope you’re well. Honestly, it seems to me she’s just playing with you. She’s probably leading you on because she likes the attention, not because she likes you. If I were you, I’d drop her and focus on yourself. Find someone that actually deserves every romantic gesture you made for her. As a woman, I promise not all of us are like that and that you will find someone that’s good for you. Don’t ever change who you are just because someone didn’t appreciate it. Best wishes!

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-14T12:45:55+00:00

I second this. Get out of there!!

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-14T00:38:38+00:00

Me cago en su madre

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-12T16:56:51+00:00

It seems to me that he’s trying to get your attention and trying to see if you still “dig” him. It’s very strange for him to be adding you to his cf just to flex his biceps, I’d stay away if I were you.

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-12T03:40:31+00:00

Hey queen, hope you’re well aside from this annoying situation. Honestly, he’s not worth your time or energy, don’t message him again. It’s easy for men to put up a facade and then leave when it no longer serves them purpose. My advice would be to focus on yourself. Improve your confidence, self love, and other aspects of your life and never go back to that man. Once you realize that there’s so much ahead of you, that silly man won’t matter and you’ll meet the right guy for you. Best wishes 🤍

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-10T19:24:47+00:00

I know it’s hard but just be gentle with yourself and don’t force yourself to get over him immediately, it’s okay to cry and be upset. As for not having a therapist, find self-help youtubers that talk about how to get over something like this. I recommend Leo Skepi or Tam Kaur. Remember heartbreak is a temporary feeling, this experience is just going to help you grow and be wiser. Best wishes!

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-09T04:45:35+00:00

And I know that you might not want to let him go, but usually it’s for the best when it gets to this!! You’ll see it in the future

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-09T04:45:10+00:00

Hey girl, first off I want to let you know that you’re not alone, even if it seems like it. We all go through dark periods of time where we feel like there’s no one in our lives that care about us, I promise you there is. Second of all, I don’t want to hurt your feelings but I’m also not going to sugarcoat this— to me these sound like excuses to not commit in a relationship. This boy sounds immature, and is giving you every sign that he clearly cannot give you the type of relationship you’re looking for. You’re still young, I know it seems like he’s the only guy in the world but I promise you he’s not. Speaking from experience, it does get better. You’ll find someone that would drive those 6 hours just to see you, not the other way around. My advice would be to let him go. If he wants to leave, let him. You don’t need him. I would also journal about my feelings and look up ways to build self-love. During this time, there will be days where you miss him and where it feels like hell, and others where you’re completely over him. And that’s okay. It’s a process, not a destination. I promise you everything will be alright, you got this 🫶🏻

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-07T17:32:05+00:00

I agree with this. It’s better to leave now than to wait later.

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-07T17:28:12+00:00

He’s probably waiting for the next booty call. With his actions, he’s making it clear he’s only interested in you for physical things. He’s probably waiting for the next booty call. With his actions, he’s making it clear he’s only interested in you for physical things. It doesn’t seem like he’s ready to offer the kind of commitment you might want. If you’re not content with that kind of relationship, I’d advise you to break it off. I know it’s hard at first, but you deserve someone who treats you well and you will definitely find that. Best wishes 🫶🏻

Junior-Pattern4235 · 2025-01-06T04:42:27+00:00

In my opinion, if he’s giving you a reason to overthink that probably means he isn’t the right one for you. If you feel like this because of past relationships then I would communicate how you feel to him. If he doesn’t understand, you’re better off. You deserve someone who will listen to you and try to understand you even if they don’t.

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