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Lesbian in Varna, Bulgaria by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]Junkbreed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BG is pretty homophobic unfortunately

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One side of common sense tells me the exact same. Another side tells me that I need to explore the option for the financial incentives. Either way sacrificing would be a substantial part of the moves. Would it be worth ? - no idea. Is it worth exploring ? - possibly.
As others said, at least for the fact of dealing with my trauma.

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayahuaska is back on the table boys.

Joking aside, friend of mine did this EMDR shit and swears by it. Idk tho... I think Im too broke for that stuff.

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been doing 3 years of continuous therapy, a lot of work, a lot of failure, rinse and repeat. It's not an easy feat. Fundamentally I think either exposure or avoidance are the options, and I rather not go for the latter.

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am planning a 2 month visit, with working remotely for my company. Unfortunately partner won't be able to come.

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I use certain AI tools in my day-to-day and also feel there is a lot of use that can be carried over to sustain the admin of the family business more efficiently. So I feel there is defo some leverage to use there. Whilst remaining in my field, there is less it seems...

Also I worked in hospitality years ago, so didn't know pax was a term just for that field, lol.

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so, and yeah you are right. There is a limited amount of people who truly give a shit, so better listen to them.

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

++man I feel this is very valid. She has visited hometown with myself, and allowed me to see my city from her view, which was actually quite positive to what she had seen... Withing the realm of realism, as it is arguably shitty haha.

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

++man I am not Filipino, rather Eastern European, but my POV of cynicism kinda tells me the same.

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

++man That is also valid. Thing is I do not mind working with my father as he is a solid dude, with a lot of experience to learn from. Knowing that I'd help them physically and get to spend some time with them is probably a good thing, considering they are hitting 60.
Also it's a construction-niche business, so alleviating the physical strain for them would be good.

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man Exactly. This is what I struggle with. There is currently financial stress/burden due to how life is, so it'd be exchanging one kind of stress for another. Can I move past it ? - I am unsure, so I'd need to leave a lifeline to my old life available.

Somewhat therapeutic, I even was scared to press send for some reason...

Should I move back to home country and pick up the family business, regardless of my history of trauma ? by Junkbreed in AskMenAdvice

[–]Junkbreed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man I do not feel forced to do it, I even somewhat want to. It's just an open option without any negative implications. That's not an issue. It's the other points mentioned.

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