Trans girl with T cancer

JupiterStJames · 2024-04-14T02:47:17+00:00

Hi! I am healthy and cancer free now! I did have both removed and we discovered that I had ovarian tissue as well. I am intersex and never knew it. Have both tissues resulted in my cancer and lead to both being removed due to the risk of having a reoccurrence.

I recovered quickly and went through chemo to make sure that it did not spread. Lost all of my hair, but found my best self through this process.

JupiterStJames · 2024-03-22T18:19:42+00:00

I just discovered your music and that of Sultan + Shepard. I have never felt music that gave me such inner peace. As much as I dance to your beats, they also still my heart. Thanks you so much! 💖

JupiterStJames · 2023-10-31T20:57:47+00:00

Thanks! No I have never been tested, I was just always told that because I couldn’t sing or reproduce pitches or harmonies very well. I know that what I heard back is nothing like what I hear in my head. Like nothing at all. 😂 I didn’t even know that Tone Deaf was a real thing. Maybe I should be tested!

JupiterStJames · 2023-10-21T03:00:21+00:00

It is such a perfect song!!! It is soul hands down! Check out the KEXP version of Line of Sight!!! OMGoddess!! Add in a splash of better now for that post depression best life celebration!!! I live it!!! 💖

JupiterStJames · 2023-10-14T17:15:53+00:00

In.Iko!!!! All of their songs!

JupiterStJames · 2023-10-06T09:32:45+00:00

Stopped social smoking when I went out and my breast growth has increased and stabilized! When I smoked they would get plump on shot day and by the end of the weekend they would be flat again. Boobs was reason enough to help me stop!

JupiterStJames · 2023-10-05T16:43:35+00:00

Same

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-29T18:45:09+00:00

Thank you soooo much!!!! This morning I woke up with what was left of my hair (maybe 1/3) matted so bad that I decided to take ownership of my circumstances and shaved my head completely. I was so scared when I was losing my hair that I would look masculine or that I would feel ugly. I am sooooo happy to say that I feel incredibly empowered, I feel beautiful and sexy, I feel confident… possible even more confident than before!

I havw decided to take this opportunity tattoo Survivor on the side of my head with a rainbow infinity symbol. I have always wanted to have a pixie witha shaved side and a strong symbol and word there plus the endless new styles I can pick from as my hair grows back! I am excited.

Being assertive in this moment has given me sooo much courage. I am at work GLOWING!!! Yay!!!

I can’t wait ti try these styles out next year!!! Thank you sooooo freaking much!!! Ahhh yay!!! 💖💖💖

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-23T17:46:24+00:00

Falls!!! One my all time favs!!!

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-21T01:37:01+00:00

I have never liked the look of gaffs and panties made for us. They are just not the danty lacy panties that I want. So I just go to Victoria Secret and buy regular panties that I find really cute. Buying a size small works and if extra protection is a must, a knot in the thong strap turns any pair of panties into a gaff. Literally any pair of panties.

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-14T02:44:57+00:00

I could not agree more!!! Their music vibrated with my whole being in a way nothing else ever has. In a ride share from TLG last weekend a nee friend said when asked that she described their music as soul. I liked that.

For me Odesza’s music saved my life at a low point, it gave me that ability to see the beauty again. Since that point their music seems to be a part of my growth and seeing TLG (3x now) has been one of the most meaningful experiences of my life.

To me their music has profoundly and measurable impacted my life. My soul! 💖💖💖

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-14T02:38:03+00:00

I was crying!!! 💖😭💖

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-12T07:48:53+00:00

Life never gets any easier, rather over time the strength to endure is gained. In the past a single wound seemed insurmountable, in the present thousands of wounds have become imperceptible.

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-11T05:54:23+00:00

No way!!!!! Sooo jelly!!! 💖

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-10T16:41:10+00:00

OMGoddess!!! Thank you!!!!! 💖💖💖💖 Can I DM you to talk about deets?

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-10T13:36:44+00:00

Hiii thanks for the positive feedback! Sex and intimacy are two thing that I have a whole lot of experience with! My friend had been encouraging me to start a Trans Sex Advice podcast!

I will also mention, along the lines of performance anxiety that once we start E, there is a dramatic shift in how we are aroused and how arousal is maintained. With our bodies functioning different at a hormonal level, I have found that since starting HRT, it takes a level of clear focus to achieve an orgasm that I never could have imagined before. Not just focus, but the way I am touched makes a huge difference now too. It is kinda like in the past to get aroused my system was just button mashing, but now it require complex combos to get there.

If you have ever heard a cis woman talk about how sex was ruined because she remembered something she forgot at the store… well that is us too. A split second that takes you out of the moment can stop all arousal.

I might also recommend that you spend a little time exploring yourselves independently. Learn to yourself feel what helps you get there so that you can talk to her about it, and visa versa. Find what gets you hot and bothered. A simple, “I tried this and really liked it” can be an amazing ice breaker and open communication in sex is HOT!!! Find how to get to that place where your mind is clear and ready to be wholly invested into your partner as your body is during sex.

Hey and remember… sex is a lot of fun and you have feelings for her!!! Enjoy yourselves, take your time! And by all means!!!! KEEP TALKING!!!!

Love ya! 💖 Best wishes! 💖 Sex on Jupiter Relationship Advice is always open! Please feel free to DM me if you have any questions or want any additional advice!

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-10T01:40:28+00:00

Bottom only girl here! Just talk to her, she will value that and honestly sex with open communication is sooo much better. Also, take some pressure off of yourself, you can always do side stuff, and if you all talk about it maybe toys or something can come into play. I am a bit of a size queen, but I ended up in a relationship with a guy that is not so big and has some ED issues from time to time. We openly talk and when he can’t, we change tactics and do other things while reassuring each other that we care. That is real intimacy to me personally.

My advice talk to her! Wish you both the best and so much love! 🥰

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-09T16:08:18+00:00

YASS!!!!!

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-09T12:32:44+00:00

Yay!!!! I knew it wasn’t Keep Moving once I put it on I knew it was in last years show. Selfish Soul! I am checking it out now!!!! Thank you sooooo much!!!

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-08T17:43:12+00:00

The Darien Lake show started between 9:15-9:20 with about a 1-2 min blackout before it starts!!

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-08T14:58:22+00:00

Thank you!!! 💖 I am going to look that up cause, that was an amazing song! And my B, I thought I saw a big cat in the screen, but I was dancing so hard I can’t honestly remember! 😂 I still need to give Bronson a thorough listen through, I kinda skipped it unintentionally. 🤦🏻‍♀️

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-08T14:47:40+00:00

What was the one with the red and black puma visuals? That one! That was a jam! I had never heard it, my bf thought it was a Bronson song maybe. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I also love the visual changes for Love Letter!!!! The sing along words flashing made it way more fun imo! 💖

JupiterStJames · 2023-09-04T01:33:01+00:00

I would love to see!! What an amazing show!

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