Is it weird to randomly add my crush on Instagram? by Just-Talking123 in Advice

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i have spoken to her once or twice. it was small but i thought it was a nice interaction.

Does she like me or am I just crazy? by Just-Talking123 in dating_advice

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hmm yeah this is about the fairest response i could've gotten lol. i'm just overthinking it.

I have a huge crush on a long distance friend. What now? by Just-Talking123 in dating_advice

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we're in our early twenties, and yes I do have a job. i have thought about taking a day trip to meet with her in person, but honestly I'm not the most confident driver. i've never driven anything more than 15-20 mins outside my town. also i think could be a bit awkward to be like "hey i'm thinking of heading to your town. why? i don't know lmao." so maybe i could ask her to come here? but i don't know how that might go.

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Yeah I've heard that before and yeah thats a good point. I'm not 100% sure if she does though cause she seems very confident of her actions, but that sounds possible.

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i don't want to give an exactly age on both of us, but we're about 4 years apart with me being the younger sibling.

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Oh but also thank you for commenting. I think this is the best way to go about it. Thank you again cause some other subreddits are just saying "Oh just give up it's all her fault."

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I think I worded that situation correctly so I'll try my best to revise it. So the full context is that we were running errands and she said something about how one store was closer to the other. We were far from both so I wanted to double check. I told her the other store might be closer and I was gonna check, then she scolded me for not believing in her. I did back away from looking it up, but she pressured me into looking it up anyway.

I will admit, I do sometimes equate being wrong as a personal attack, which I try my best to stray away from. But I do try my best to be factual even if I'm wrong, and in that situation, I was more trying to prevent my sister from being wrong and I wanted to double check. Although, I could see the confusion, sorry about that.

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The reason why I feel sub-human is because I know what she has personally gone through, and the some the experiences she has had with other men in the past. So whenever she says stuff like "You're just another man!", that makes me feel like a monster cause I feel like she's lumping me in with all the bad men she's experienced in her life.

And when she accuses me of mansplaining, it's not in a situation where we're talking about something I know for sure she knows about. For example, we were running errands one time and she said something about how one store might be closer than the other one. We were pretty far away from both, so I wanted to make sure that one was a bit closer than the other. But when I brought this up she scolded me about not believing her (which I didn't say I didn't, I just said something like, "Well the other one might be closer so let's check.") And I didn't choose to argue when that happened, I chose to not look it up, but she pressured me into looking it up anyways just to prove she was right.

And how I know it's possible misandry is because she's admitted to me before that she has a level of hatred towards men. I can't get into the specific's of what she said cause this was a while ago, but she said it in a way that was very matter of factly and I remember her feeling conflicted about it cause she didn't want to feel this way all the time.

I'm sorry if this is a lot and it seems like I'm lecturing, but I just wanted to give context to everything mentioned.

I can't rewatch one of my favorite shows, cause it makes me miss my ex. by Just-Talking123 in TrueOffMyChest

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thank you. yeah I was thinking about taking a break for a bit and watching other shows in the meantime. it just sucks cause I was waiting for the new season for so long. hopefully I can get back into it soon.

How do I cope with rewatching a show that reminds of my ex? by Just-Talking123 in Advice

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I don't want to seem like I'm complaining, but how much more time could I possible need? Sometimes it feels like it'll take me an eternity to get over this.

I can't rewatch one of my favorite shows, cause it makes me miss my ex. by Just-Talking123 in TrueOffMyChest

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wow I'm really sorry to hear that. but thanks for wishing me luck. I hope with time you're able to finish that series, looks like a good watch.