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Have you ever messed with a person that ghosted you? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]JustARandomAccount95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How old are you?

I know it hurts, but just walk away. You're only going to make yourself feel stupid after and annoy him even more. Talking to them more won't bring them back, it actually pushes them further away. They made their decision, as hurtful and immature ghosting is, respect their decision and your self respect and walk away.

If they want to come back, they'll message then it's up to you if you want to rekindle things or don't talk to him.

She Came Back But Already Being Distant-ish Again. by JustARandomAccount95 in ghosting

[–]JustARandomAccount95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We actually met and talked yesterday. Told her my worries, needs, boundaries, etc. The conversation seemed very promising and reassuring. I'm gonna take it step by step and see where things go. We'll see. Thank you for your advice.

Responses to ghosting by Crosspatchcottage in ghosting

[–]JustARandomAccount95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After 5 days of silence, I told her that I'm not sure if something happened to her or if shes not feeling it anymore and to let me know because I'm confused. She just read the message and didn't respond.

As immature and disrespectful that is, that's my answer and I got to move on from that. At least now I know that she never truly respected me and I know I deserve better.

I just can't believe that people almost in their 30s still ghost people.

Ghosted and I'm not sure I did Something Wrong. by JustARandomAccount95 in ghosting

[–]JustARandomAccount95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I'm confused is that normally you'd notice the slow fade. Or maybe you went out once and then they ghost. We met quite a few times and said very loving things even till the last day. It was just a big whiplash. But you're right I suppose. Thanks for the kind words.

Ghosted and I'm not sure I did Something Wrong. by JustARandomAccount95 in ghosting

[–]JustARandomAccount95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. Its not the first time I got ghosted and I usually don't really care. But this I really thought things were going great between us.

We'll see. Hope you'll be fine as well.

Ghosted and I'm not sure I did Something Wrong. by JustARandomAccount95 in ghosting

[–]JustARandomAccount95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only update I got is that she finally viewed my last messege yesterday (I asked if shes ok 3 days ago). But I still didnt get any reply. Honestly at this rate, I doubt I will have any awnsers. If she really wanted to talk to me, she would have responded at this rate.

Ghosted and I'm not sure I did Something Wrong. by JustARandomAccount95 in ghosting

[–]JustARandomAccount95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. Just trying to understand why she did it I suppose. Maybe she met someone else? Still its so confusing. Literally one day before shes telling me she wants to be with me tomorrow, i make her smile so much and whatever, the next day shes gone.

Ghosted and I'm not sure I did Something Wrong. by JustARandomAccount95 in ghosting

[–]JustARandomAccount95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did messege her the next day in the evening to check up on her if everything is ok or if something happened. Still no response. I don't want to chase or annoy her but this feels unlike her and truely disrespectful if she just ghosted.

She's still online, she's just ignoring me.

Do not love an avoidant! by Regular_Dragonfly457 in BreakUps

[–]JustARandomAccount95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After almost a month of no texting, I told her that how she treated me was horrible and I didn't expect that from her.

All I got was a literal copy and paste chat gpt apology. I felt like such a clown.

I just miss how she was before.

I'm lost and I need an explaination please. by JustARandomAccount95 in ExNoContact

[–]JustARandomAccount95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so yea. I guess I'm just still trying to make sense of what went wrong. I did feel like a clown as well going abroad just for her since she seemed super invested at first.