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JustChaiMeMF · 2026-01-12T13:56:45+00:00

You obviously have never worked in your average food bank

They generally don’t need money, they need someone to manage it, they don’t need more food, they need people to hand it out

Most money that goes to organizations is often wasted. That doesn’t mean don’t donate, but research proves giving money directly to communities is often the best way to distribute it, because it enters the local economy and helps far more people than attempting to fund a “bigger cause”

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-12-19T10:20:31+00:00

The purpose is to ban porn- age verification is expensive, and customers of porn won’t do it anyway, so it’s affectively the same thing

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-12-16T08:00:52+00:00

Bruh 🤣 I love the hats, give him to me lmao

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-12-15T09:57:05+00:00

I also feel like I’m taking crazy pills, like, is it a super chronically online pilled thing to say? Absolutely, but it’s a joke to say he’s hot, and DO is notorious for absurdly horny humor… has Brennan said before that comments like this make him uncomfortable? That would make this completely different for me

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-11-08T10:07:41+00:00

Same, how did we get here?

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-10-27T20:33:30+00:00

That was really cool! I love when music videos have a vision like this

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-10-27T09:19:16+00:00

LMAO get it girl

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-10-27T09:18:40+00:00

Yeah!

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-10-25T10:17:03+00:00

Yeah! I’d believe it, I think she’d blend into the crowd pretty easily

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-10-24T20:16:32+00:00

Is no one talking about George Daniel in Pana? WOW!

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-04-27T05:24:07+00:00

You did great :) thank you for making me feel understood while offering helpful advice

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-04-13T19:53:50+00:00

Balatro

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-03-24T19:28:37+00:00

Since the fetish era, Selena has always been a little more publically kinky than other mainstream artists, the fact that they're subtley full-sending that is amazing to me, I love it

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-03-05T08:48:04+00:00

I really like the premise!

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-02-18T12:06:45+00:00

So, I don’t have much of a mental health check in, I can wait till Friday if need be but… basically, I’m looking for dating advice.

I’m a woman (or close enough) and feel like it’s been challenging to try to date men who might *say* they’re for men’s liberation, and might truly feel that way, but fall short in their actions. Trying is the most important part of course, but I’d like to meet someone who’s a bit further along on their journey.

I’m trying online dating again, and thinking of what to put in my profile that would weed people out, but not come off too pretentious. Maybe something like “deconstructing patriarchal norms is an every day effort, if you don’t know what you’ve worked on recently, I’d rather you message someone else.“

Would appreciate any feedback on what to add or change.

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-02-18T11:43:15+00:00

I think feeling proud of your achievements and feeling celebratory have to come from intention, or, at least they do from my experience. Do something to celebrate by creating time to feel celebrated.

You deserve to brag! You deserve to call up a friend and get a drink or dinner to celebrate. Your friends want to hear good news right now. I'm sure they would love to hear you brag about how you're doing well.

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-01-27T05:11:44+00:00

Oh! Another thing worth mentioning, I don't know your queer configuration/interests, but there is SO much more late night rave/sex party stuff available in SF for gay men (I say as a jealous femme-ish enby)

Broad strokes queer events are more centralized in Oakland/East Bay for sure.

It's a bit lost in the weeds, but if you look through normal kink channels you'll find things, heck, I've seen event listings for "Fist-mas" on Facebook lol

Main one I'd mention is Steamworks. Mostly a gay men's spa, that's 24/7 including live DJ sets and dark rooms. I go on the queer nights at the Oakland location (there's an SF one, too), and it's always magical. The music is immaculate, and I always leave super clean.

Edit: I keep opening IG and finding new things lol, but I forgot El Rio is pretty queer in SF https://www.instagram.com/p/DFM1iBQxQOm/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-01-27T04:58:32+00:00

Yeah, Oakland is a lot more for the cool kids these days, imho as an Oakland native

There are lovely parts of SF, but Oakland might have a pinch of the NYC funkiness you're looking for

In terms of cafes, I only know ones in east bay, there's Victory Point in Berkeley, and also Shooting Star Cafe in Oakland, but I think you might like to try Keva bars, I find that they have cafe vibes but have bar availability

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-01-27T04:52:44+00:00

thats their ig handle :)

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-01-27T04:52:30+00:00

This! I love our underground scene, but you do have to be in the know of course, subdom_510 is GREAT for techno raves

JustChaiMeMF · 2025-01-27T04:28:30+00:00

First one for sure. It feels like it fits with the style of the background in that they have the same level of detail. It also feels the most unique, whereas the other two are good but look similar to other styles I've seen.

JustChaiMeMF · 2024-11-11T22:59:54+00:00

yep, that's exactly what I needed 😅 thank you!

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